Seeing the challenge arena match of ID "Lei Gong Tai Chi" and "MMA Xu Xiaodong" on microblog, the two people had quarreled about the traditional martial arts and modern fighting on microblog, and had scheduled a live match. The result was that within seconds, "Lei Gong Tai Chi" was beaten to blood, and it was inexplicably pleasant to see.

So by the way, I saw the micro blog signature of "Lei Gong Tai Chi": "Manjusri Master Li Bodhisattva asked the Buddha. What is the meaning of nirvana without surplus? Buddha's words. It is also true to be still and unmoved. Three generations of Buddhas have come together. Back to their hearts without movement. Let's enjoy the happiness without happiness. There is no happiness. It is more than this happiness. So it is called nirvana without surplus."

It's disgusting (please allow me to say a dirty word). I always have two conclusions: 1. Chinese traditional martial arts is more like a huge propaganda hoax, but more people believe in it, it seems true. 2. I always doubt that the actual combat level of kungfu superstar Bruce Lee may also be inferior, but the publicity of the film has magnified his level.

We watched TV plays and mythical Chinese martial arts since childhood. Then there are some people like Huo Yuanjia and Chen Zhen who "ideologize" martial arts and "resist the brainwashing of foreign powers and Japanese invaders and unite the people" politically. In the end, we don't know the real martial arts and the real role of martial arts. What is the actual combat level of Chinese martial arts? What is the actual combat level with boxing, MMA and WWE players? We rarely see the actual combat competition between traditional martial arts players and other players. More is the mouth gun, and then is the profound and mysterious philosophy of "Chinese martial arts", what is the "unity of heaven and man", what is the "Tao", what is the "white crane shining its wings" in Taijiquan, what is the "inch boxing" in Yongchun Ah, you just can't see them playing, but more see them performing on various occasions. Do you think you can get away from gravity by "turning somersaults" all day long?

As a result, he fell down and looked at the "Lei Gong Tai Chi" (said to be an expert in traditional Tai Chi) a few seconds later, wiping his blood with paper. Alas... it's really cruel!

I also think it can be extended to the so-called "traditional Chinese medicine". With the development of human science, a large number of people do not believe in the reasonable training of physical strength, strength, punching speed, etc., and try to go out to fight with people by relying on the enlightenment and natural objects all day long. It's a joke.  

The cells, genes and scientific tests of the human body do not believe this, but believe in acupuncture, cupping, blood letting and acupoints. "Staggered and diverse patterns are really the root of human happiness". Just be happy.

Some people say that I once had a certain disease, which was cured by Chinese medicine. Well, a broken clock is accurate twice a day.

So I always brainwash the old man. I said that when you get old, if you suddenly get an incurable disease, Western medicine has no way out. At this time, if there is a "savior" like Chinese medicine that tells you that there is a secret recipe, I will never try it. You can eat and drink well. Don't blame me for my heartlessness. I will brainwash you in advance to prevent trouble.

Professor:

Hello, I haven't seen you for a long time. Every time you are invited to a classmate gathering in recent years, you are either on a blind date or on the way of a blind date. After so many years, you and I have become the last brothers in distress, so it is inevitable that we will share weal and woe. It's good to occasionally look around in the trench and see you.  

But recently I often feel that when most of us are approaching middle age, you begin to enjoy adolescence. In my limited understanding, except for lovelorn or adolescence, there is no other period of time when people are as sentimental as you are now.  

From time to time, you send some messages in the circle of friends, such as: "Who cares about you?", "How helpless you feel", "When you are in a bad mood, you will get drunk every bit". Maybe you don't think that my downstairs landlord's son is a freshman this year, and I happen to have his QQ, Let me copy a few paragraphs for you to compare and see: "In recent days, quickly boil yourself into a bitter Chinese medicine, which is very bitter and cool", "Don't rush and never settle. If it's mean to be, it will be~", "Why do men and women have poor communication? Why do all relationships fade? One doesn't say, one doesn't ask, or one asks awkwardly, and one answers perfunctorily."

You know, I have a hobby of writing. Before the age of 28, I wrote a lot of words at random. One day, I suddenly realized a problem: I used to look back at my writing every once in a while, and I thought it was awesome. Then I found it was bullshit, and asked myself how I could write such disgusting words. Then I saw a theory that I quite agree with at the beginning, that is, it shows that you have made some progress in your writing skills. Of course, this statement is very comforting, but I don't think so now. In fact, people have two states, one is immersed state, the other is onlooking state. This is my word, which is similar to the idealistic materialism, both of which have two perspectives or outlook on life.  

When I write, of course, I am immersed. I keep silent and talking with myself. In this state, people are not able to jump out of this circle. Only when the emotion brought by this state is completely dissipated and you look at it as a bystander, can you find the problem, or the words are too modified pragmatically, Either the words are not concise enough, or they are deliberately loaded to force out the poor book bag. You can recognize your own problems. I think this may be the process of a person's growth.  

But in your words, I can't seem to see your awakening in this respect. What's the point of sending these words at the age of 30? Do you want to express your feelings? Or win sympathy? Or do you think that the imaginary opposite sex can see these words and suddenly get pregnant without hesitation, leaving everything to take care of you? Let's not cheat ourselves!  

There are all kinds of unfairness in life. Unfortunately, when you get a bad hand, you should keep thinking about it and spend 20 times of energy to play it well. It's no use complaining. Let's take marriage as an example: I don't know what your current state is, and have you ever wondered why you are so eager to go on a blind date and get married? Is it due to physiological needs, age, social, family pressure or something else? But now, in my eyes, you are basically in the state of "picking up the basket is food", as long as any girl is willing, You may follow without asking. Of course, there is no right or wrong, and many of our friends do the same in my observation. After thinking about these problems, what you should do is not to feel the spring hurting the autumn, but to act!

"What else can I do? I've already seen ten girls!"
"Not enough, not enough. You have to make up ten toes!"

Meeting the opposite sex and getting married is essentially a matter of probability: if you have a high vision, only one girl in a hundred can see you, and if you are very filing, only one girl in a hundred can see you, then as long as you meet 10000 girls, this matter will be solved. In practice, if you think marriage is something you have to do, you should resign right now. Don't stare at the solder joints on the circuit board day and night. Girls can't grow out of solder joints. You have to dive to the place where the girls are clustered. Where in China and which industry have the most girls? Electronic factories and toy factories in Guangdong and Shenzhen, and garment factories in Jiangsu and Zhejiang, depending on your ability, you can easily win the first place there. If you get a QC job, a lot of girls will surround you.  

I discovered early that The problem of the third state Recently, I found an application of it in psychology, which can solve most of my emotional problems: such as inferiority. I believe many people have experienced inferiority: blushing, embarrassment, evasive eyes, etc. My method is to carefully recall the self status when there is no one, until I can deeply remember this status, and then encounter the inferiority situation, You must be aware of this problem, and then you just need to tell yourself: Oh, this is a state of inferiority, just jump over. This method can be used to control anger, anxiety, tension, social fear and other states. This is also the way I want to tell you. You are actually an extremely introverted person, and your extroversion is more of a cover up, including your once "Big Brother follows his lead".  

There is desire in the heart, and introverted, the state can only be indecent.  
Finally, here's a suggestion: when staring at a beautiful girl, be bold. When being found by a girl, don't dodge your eyes. It's best to smile.  
There are fewer and fewer friends to contact, and there is not much material to accumulate. But you, I think, can write 3.  
Good wishes!