In the life of raising children, every parent is crossing the river by feeling the stones. In the process of interaction with children, we step by step step by step step by step step by step, slowly understand some children's psychology, slowly experience some children's feelings, and slowly understand how to get along well with children. These are knowledge, but also the life of raising children.
When raising children, parents should know several things as soon as possible, which will help us to take fewer detours and be more intelligent and rational on the way of raising children.
1. The fewer toys, the smarter children
No matter whether you have money or not, you should not buy too many toys for children. More toys are not good for developing children's brains. Why do you say that? If there are many toys, you will touch them one by one. If you have a look at them, you will lack the spirit of research and will not persist in treating a toy, thus forming the bad habit of not liking anything and playing nothing for less than three minutes. When there are fewer toys, children will think of ways to toss around a toy with a variety of patterns, and can't put it down. The more patterns they play, the more they love this toy. More thought, one toy can come up with countless ways to play, and smart brains are so inadvertently cultivated.
A feasible method is suggested: parents can classify toys first, then take two or three toys to play with children first, and play with children more to encourage children to use their brains more. When the child is really tired of playing, he will take two or three new toys to play with.
2 Children who eat independently since childhood are more attentive
When children are young, they can only focus on one thing and can hardly be disturbed by other things. Eating is a thing that can't be touched by one person, which is a psychological need. Eating, the most common thing, is the best time to exercise children's habits and certain personalities.
Chinese parents like to feed, but it is not advisable. Feeding often makes the child half hearted and picky about food. Letting children eat independently from an early age not only allows them to concentrate on eating, but also develops their finger flexibility. In the process of focusing on how to eat, it also cultivates children's love for food and will not be picky about food.
3 Good sleeping habits are the foundation of children's health
For a newborn baby, besides eating and sleeping, parents can pet the child on some unimportant things, but the only habit of sleeping must be persistent and there is no room for negotiation. Children grow up in sleep, whether it is the growth of body function or brain, they grow up rapidly in sleep.
Many people think that only enough sleep is enough. They also like to feed their children in the middle of the night or let them sleep late. They always think that sleeping does not need a time rule. In fact, this view is very wrong. Good sleep habits not only bring children health and happiness physically, but also help maximize brain development, and also bring children a good habit of life, because everyone will spend at least one third of their time in sleep every day.
4. More minor setbacks can cultivate children's strong personality
Many parents are afraid of their children's wrestling, being sick and being wronged. Have you ever thought about how these small setbacks in childhood will affect children? How can I fall down several times or even hundreds of times when learning to walk? At most, I suffered minor injuries, abraded skin, hit a bag and so on.
But if you don't let him suffer from these setbacks, he will be afraid of being injured because he has no experience. It's nothing to be afraid of being injured when he was young. Then when he grows up, he is still fragile like a biscuit, and how can he stand in this complex and changing society? The same is true of illness. Every time you get sick, you will have more physical resistance, so don't be afraid of these small setbacks. Strong personality is honed from these small setbacks.
5 Going out is the most valuable learning experience
Life is not just talking on paper. No matter how much knowledge he knows in books, he needs to experience it. Only after understanding and discovering it can he turn the knowledge in books into real nutrition in his brain. Some people say that children have no memory before they are three years old. Is it still useful to take them out to see the world?
This view is actually wrong. When a child goes out, he enjoys the process and sees different things, which will settle in his brain and bring him different thoughts for future learning. A child has to go out since he was young. The more he goes, the richer his life will be, and the more complete his thinking mode will be.
6 Read several books to children every day to help them learn a multi-dimensional thinking model
The world on books is colorful. Children who have been edified by books since childhood have more diversified modes of thinking and richer imagination and creativity.
Let your child listen to a few books before going to bed. On the one hand, you can develop the habit of calming down before going to bed, and you can also enter a quiet sleep state as soon as possible; Second, stories in books can stimulate children's understanding of the world, thus stimulating children's desire for learning. Let children develop the habit of reading. You will gradually find it helpful in the future childcare life.
