What should young men and women pay attention to when they face sex life for the first time in the "wedding night" and turn the lurking sexual desire into real passionate sex for the first time?
1. Don't forget yourself and kiss deeply
In the first sexual life, men and women often use passionate kissing and touching as the prelude to sexual intercourse. However, improper kissing will lead to happiness and sorrow. If the kiss is improper and the neck of the other person is pressed too hard, the heart rate will slow down and blood pressure will drop in light cases, and the heartbeat will stop reflexively in heavy cases, causing death.
2. Don't indulge in excess
Newly married men and women are intolerant of lust. They will indulge in lust and make love frequently, which is harmful to the body. In the process of preparing for the wedding, I was already very tired. For example, excessive sexual intercourse would lead to the decline of the body's ability to resist disease and cause some diseases. Generally speaking, healthy men and women should take 6-7 times a week at the beginning of marriage, and then reduce it to 3-4 times a week. As long as they don't feel tired the next day, and feel happy and energetic, they will adapt. If there is emotional fatigue, fatigue, lumbago, lethargy, dizzy , shortness of breath, etc., which indicates that sexual intercourse is excessive and must be controlled, otherwise it will be harmful to health.
3. Don't be impatient and rude
In the process of sexual intercourse, the man should be kind and gentle, not too rude, so as not to make the woman feel pain and cause adverse stimulation. Excessive excitement often leads to premature ejaculation. If this happens, there is no need to worry about it, and it will gradually improve in the future. If the newlyweds catch up with the woman's menstruation, the man must control his sexual behavior and cannot have sexual intercourse, otherwise it will bring pain to the woman.
4. Don't be suspicious
If a newly married man or woman finds that her hymen has broken during the first sexual intercourse, do not suspect the moral behavior of the bride. In fact, female hymen rupture is a common occurrence, and many daily behaviors can lead to hymen rupture, such as participating in sports and heavy labor. Therefore, the man should not be suspicious, causing undue contradictions.
