Nowadays, men and women are often not successful in their first love. Most of them have fallen in love several times. So, should you tell your spouse frankly about your past love experience and even sexual experience with others?
The husband and wife should trust each other and treat each other faithfully. Therefore, in principle, they should not conceal their past sexual experience, and such frank disclosure should be made before marriage rather than after marriage. In doing so, on the one hand, it shows your trust and loyalty to the other party, on the other hand, it is also a test of whether the other party is reasonable, whether you trust and understand yourself.
However, it is not necessary to talk about some specific details of the past events, because these specific details do not affect the nature of the event, and the discussion has no positive effect on the emotional development of both parties. There is such a young couple who got married after love. Both parties have a good relationship. The woman had a boyfriend in the past. They once loved each other, but later broke up for various reasons. Now the husband also knows about this matter. One night, the husband and wife were sitting on the sofa watching TV and making out. Suddenly, the husband asked, "Did that friend of yours make out so much with you in the past?" Then the wife was very difficult to answer. If that man has kissed her, hugged her and touched her in the past, what good will it do to consolidate and develop the current relationship between husband and wife? So the wife avoided answering the question directly, but just kissed her husband and said, "I have never loved anyone as I loved you."
The wife's approach is right and ingenious, while the husband seems inappropriate to ask such questions. To be honest, love is not unconditional, but it should be subject to the purpose of consolidating and developing the relationship between husband and wife. It can be seen that it is right to tell your spouse about your sexual experience, but you should be careful not to let past events affect your feelings. In this regard, both husband and wife should keep a certain mind. After all, it is a past event.
