#Beautiful Age Cases# Xiaoxiao, 17, dare not go to school, can't read or write. He is nervous when he sees a book, and his hands tremble when he picks up a pen to write homework. He is especially afraid that he cannot concentrate on his studies, that he will not succeed in his studies, and that he will not be admitted to a famous university. The doctor said that he was tired of school and had serious anxiety disorder. His parents immediately took him to the psychological counseling room. After two months of psychological adjustment, he was free from reading and writing obstacles. He happily returned to school. What affects his learning effect is not his low IQ or not working hard enough, but his emotion - too anxious. Parents are anxious, afraid that their children's education will not be successful, that they will lose face in front of their relatives and colleagues, and that their children will not have a bright future. Children are anxious, afraid that they will not be able to do well, that they will not meet their peers, that their parents will lose face, and that they will affect their future; Teachers and school education always create a tense and competitive atmosphere for learning in order to achieve results. Many children, in the process of learning, bear heavy pressure and psychological burden, fall into anxiety and depression, and many children do not want to experience such a hard learning life, do not learn or tired of learning.

Everything is good; But it is the value and dignity of human being that we should act like we are

When people work, they should not only use their hands, legs and waist, but also use their brains and hearts.

A man must live a life that he can accept, which is precisely his motivation to change everything. With a mind, people can use it to change their lives.

I was shocked to see the five small events in Shangrao early in the morning. The cause of the incident is probably that the girl's parents both quit their jobs to accompany the girl at home. The girl's deskmate was a boy. The boy beat the girl every day. The girl told her parents many times that she wanted to study hard. The boy beat her and made her very unhappy. The girl's parents have talked to the boy for many times, but the boy still beats the girl. Girls' parents have also visited teachers and boys' parents for many times. Neither the teacher nor the boy's parents made the boy stop beating the girl.

We don't know to what extent the boys hit girls. It is likely that the boys are cowardly and frivolous, but hitting girls for a long time has made the girl's father lose his mind. At last, the girl's father saw that the communication was fruitless, and the daughter was still beaten, so he rushed into the classroom and stabbed the boy. The boy was sent to hospital and died after rescue. The girl's parents were taken away by the police.

First of all, it is an extreme case that such parents go to school with knives to assassinate boys who bully their daughters. Many parents will not do this. However, the occurrence of this extreme situation has alarmed teachers and most parents.

Secondly, school teachers need to pay attention to the phenomenon of bullying, do a good job in psychological education, and maintain harmony and unity on campus.

Beijing Meiling Psychological Counseling Center - Psychiatry Department - Psychological Counselor Listen Han Meiling

Listen In the current world, people are more and more seeking freedom and enjoyment, and the concept of self in spiritual consciousness is more and more clear and independent. Exactly, the effect behind it is that people are more and more afraid of loneliness. More and more unable to bear loneliness.

Listen Listen to contemporary men and women, regardless of age, all call from brothers and sisters, all praise from beautiful and handsome men. Indeed, at present, most of the bustling people in China's cities are well nourished and their skin is shiny. As long as they are willing to take measures, they have beautiful features, bright clothes, and no ugly people. At the moment, young boys and girls all call themselves babies, who will never grow up. If you move, you will act cute and coquettish. You will have a cute expression, feel beautiful about yourself, and follow the fairy tale of the world.

Listen It is always a hymn to listen to handsome men and beautiful women, but babies can't bear any injustice. No matter who gave it to me, I can't do it. Handsome men, beautiful women and babies can't do without love. Their parents are great, deep, inclusive and kind. Their friends understand and support their love. Their lovers are sincere, pure and unique,

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So far, I have been a psychological consultant for 18 years. Over the years, there have been more than 200 cases of women with prenatal anxiety and postpartum depression. They all had suicidal thoughts. Some of them had suicidal behaviors, and some of them had suicidal behaviors several times. There are three reasons: First, the husband does not care enough or poor. 2、 I really lack independent responsibility. It is not the lack of independent ability. Everyone is independent and not used to doing things independently, so he appears to have no ability. As long as he does it himself, he will have the ability, so this is not the main thing. The main thing is the sense of independence and the spirit of responsibility. 3、 The cultural environment of social development advocates individual hedonism, refined egoism, and parents' concept of rich daughters, which makes the education of independent responsibility lacking. Therefore, more and more women in the world cannot bear the pain of childbearing and the responsibility of childbearing.

As for the suicide of this pregnant woman, from several online biographies I have seen so far, I would like to share my views:

1、  Giving birth is a big event. In this event, the pregnant woman was accompanied by the man and his family. No mention was made of the woman's family.

2、  The pain of childbirth varies from person to person. It is very painful for most women to have their first child. As the saying goes, "Children run for life, mothers run for death".

What are the most disruptive factors in life? Inferiority complex.

Where you feel inferior, you will fall!

Because of inferiority, you repress yourself and wronged yourself in life!

Because of the inferiority complex, you dare not express yourself in interpersonal relationships, and will not fight for your own rights!

Because of inferiority, you avoid interpersonal relationships, inferiority makes your life lose color!

[Tutor Introduction]

Course design supervisor: Han beautiful age

Psychological consulting experts; He is the founder of the comprehensive therapy of natural enjoyment, and his psychological work Enjoying Life; Chief psychological consultant and supervisor of Meiling Psychological Counseling Center (Beijing/Zhengzhou);

Invited by CCTV, CCTV Network, China National Radio, Beijing Television, Los Angeles Chinese Radio and other television and radio programs to resolve the psychological crisis of the parties involved in the program and analyze the psychological causes of the situation; Interviewed by Global Times, BBC, TBS, Hong Kong Ta Kung Pao, Beijing Evening News and other TV news media; Contributors of more than 20 magazines on mental health.

With 18 years of experience in psychological consultation and education, he is good at psychological adjustment of various serious psychological problems, such as adolescent problems, marital emotions, sexual psychology and obsessive-compulsive disorder, depression, bipolar affective disorder, insomnia, psychogenic schizophrenia, etc.

    Han Meiling

Beijing Meiling Psychological Counseling Center - Psychiatry Department - Psychological Counselor   Han Meiling

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Undoubtedly, there are many factors that can destroy marriage, but generally speaking, there are four main factors: first, personality incompatibility; 2、 Economic conflict; 3、 Status difference; 4、 Sexual disorders.

What are the most disruptive factors in life? Inferiority complex.

Where you feel inferior, you will fall!

Because of inferiority, you repress yourself and wronged yourself in life!

Because of the inferiority complex, you dare not express yourself in interpersonal relationships, and will not fight for your own rights!

Because of inferiority, you avoid interpersonal relationships, inferiority makes your life lose color!

[Tutor Introduction]

Course design supervisor: Han beautiful age

Psychological consulting experts; He is the founder of the comprehensive therapy of natural enjoyment, and his psychological work Enjoying Life; Chief psychological consultant and supervisor of Meiling Psychological Counseling Center (Beijing/Zhengzhou);

Invited by CCTV, CCTV Network, China National Radio, Beijing Television, Los Angeles Chinese Radio and other television and radio programs to resolve the psychological crisis of the parties involved in the program and analyze the psychological causes of the situation; Interviewed by Global Times, BBC, TBS, Hong Kong Ta Kung Pao, Beijing Evening News and other TV news media; Contributors of more than 20 magazines on mental health.

With 18 years of experience in psychological consultation and education, he is good at psychological adjustment of various serious psychological problems, such as adolescent problems, marital emotions, sexual psychology and obsessive-compulsive disorder, depression, bipolar affective disorder, insomnia, psychogenic schizophrenia, etc.

    Han Meiling

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So far, I have been a psychological consultant for 18 years. Over the years, there have been more than 200 cases of women with prenatal anxiety and postpartum depression. They all had suicidal thoughts. Some of them had suicidal behaviors, and some of them had suicidal behaviors several times. There are three reasons: First, the husband does not care enough or poor. 2、 I really lack independent responsibility. It is not the lack of independent ability. Everyone is independent and not used to doing things independently, so he appears to have no ability. As long as he does it himself, he will have the ability, so this is not the main thing. The main thing is the sense of independence and the spirit of responsibility. 3、 The cultural environment of social development advocates individual hedonism, refined egoism, and parents' concept of rich daughter, which makes the education of independent responsibility missing. Therefore, more and more women in the world cannot bear the pain of childbearing and the responsibility of childbearing.

As for the suicide of this pregnant woman, from several online biographies I have seen so far, I would like to share my views:

1、  Giving birth is a big event. In this event, the pregnant woman was accompanied by the man and his family. No mention was made of the woman's family.

2、  The pain of childbirth varies from person to person. It is very painful for most women to have their first child. As the saying goes, "Children run for life, mothers run for death".

Beijing Meiling Psychological Counseling Center - Psychiatry Department - Psychological Counselor   Han Meiling

        Analysis of beautiful age: hypnosis technology - death experience

Case summary: Lu Chen, female, eighteen Years old. Main psychological problems: one , often self mutilation, like black and pain, like sad music, like CK (Chen Ke)