Our family is in business. When I was very young, my parents bought a house in the city, and the location is very good. Over the years, my business has become better and better, and my life has become better and better. But because our family was from the countryside before, my father often taught my brother and I not to forget our roots. Although I am rich now, although I didn't stay in the countryside for a few years, and I was too young at that time, I am not impressed with the countryside, but I always tell myself that my hometown is in the countryside, and I even think that the sense of superiority of urban people is a shameful behavior.

　　 In college, I met my current husband. He is from a rural area. His family's economic condition is not good. He studies with loans and works part-time. But I like his character of self-improvement. I think people should be independent. The advantages of my husband attracted me, and then we came together. Two years after graduating from college, we talked about getting married. My husband's family has nothing to help us, but I don't blame them.

　　 Many people think that it is natural for parents in law to buy a house for their sons and daughters in law and prepare betrothal gifts for their daughters in law, but I don't think so. I don't want to be a gnaw. I think life is my own. My husband and I will work hard slowly, and life will not be too bad. Who doesn't want to get old? But parents love their children after all, especially in a family like me, where there are economic conditions, so my father decided to buy me a wedding house and take 100000 yuan as a dowry, which can also make my married life better.

　　 This was originally a good thing. My husband was always good to me, but I felt angry because of my mother-in-law's performance. After my husband and I got married, she showed off that her son had the ability to marry a girl in the city. Not only did she not have to spend a cent on the bride price, but her daughter-in-law also took the house dowry to pay them back. I always believe that character is the soul of a person. If you lose your character, it will be meaningless for him to live in the world.

　　 Our family was considerate of their family, but she said I was considerate. I am a person whose eyes cannot contain sand, and her behavior makes me extremely sick. She came to my house a few months after we got married. At first, she was very happy and regarded it as her own home. I didn't give a good face after she came. I didn't say that my husband knew what I meant, so I sent his mother back to his hometown secretly.

　　 After returning to her hometown, her mother-in-law was restless. She always showed off her son's home in front of relatives and friends. She also said that if someone went to the city on business, she could directly find his son. Many relatives of his family came to my house. The relatives stayed for a few days, and the relatives stayed for a few days, making the house a mess. Later, I gave a direct order to expel guests. My husband called his mother, and my mother-in-law was not allowed to let relatives come again. Since then, I stopped a little.

　　 Soon after I became pregnant, my mother-in-law wanted to take care of me but I refused. I told her that I had a real mother and didn't need her to take care of me. After the pregnancy in October, I gave birth to a son who was a little weak at that time. My parents were very distressed and bought me a lot of supplements. My mother came to my home to take care of me, and also invited my sister in law. After her mother-in-law came, she saw her son was very happy. She didn't want to let go as soon as she held him in her arms. She murmured, "We finally have a grandson and an heir."

　　 I have a characteristic that I hate people who value boys more than girls. It is said that rural people value boys over girls. I think this is wrong. My parents were also rural people before, and they didn't have this idea. What does it mean that they have heirs? It seems that they have a throne to inherit. Soon after the baby was born, I went to our house directly, and the baby followed my surname.

　　 I discussed this matter with my husband before, and he also agreed that the child should take my surname. After all, it was our house. My parents treated him like a son. He felt grateful from the bottom of his heart. But when my mother-in-law learned about this, she came here to make a scene. She also told me why her grandson came to my house with my family name and household registration. My mother said, "With the house we bought, our family gave us 100000 yuan as a dowry, but your family didn't give anything."

　　 The mother-in-law was very angry, and said: "My son is not the son-in-law who came to our house, but your daughter married us. Do you have any mistake?" My mother said: "It's because you didn't understand the situation, right? The wedding room we have, and the bride price we also have, why is your son not the son-in-law who came to our house? It doesn't cost a cent to marry a daughter-in-law, and it's not your turn to marry a white wolf with nothing!" Her mother-in-law was very angry. She wanted her husband to say something for her, but he made her calm down. She was very angry and went to the hospital.

　　 I haven't seen her since she entered the hospital. My husband is always looking after her. After leaving the hospital, she wanted to make trouble again. My mother directly told her that if she made trouble again, she would let me divorce my husband. The house was my premarital property, and my husband could not share it. The 100000 yuan dowry was also in my hands, and the child was still so small. In addition, my husband and I were so different in family circumstances, the child would naturally be sentenced to me. She cried for a long time, and finally returned to her hometown. She never dared to show off outside, saying how capable her son was, and even dared not tell others the name of her grandson.

　　 All this was done by her. Our family didn't really treat her husband as her son-in-law. We just wanted to make her stop and let her know that my things were not hers, and I didn't post them upside down. My things are always mine, and others can't take them away. I can respect you, but you can't go further?