Guest: Yes, this is a very serious phenomenon. In fact, many people, including adults, whose parents later asked me, for example Why are our children like this? There are some serious neurological problems, and some people even have mental problems.
Compere: This child has already grown up by this time, right?
Guest: Yes, there are children, teenagers and adults. Many times I would really tell him that this thing is random. It is the child's genes, his temperament, his upbringing environment and the current social environment he is facing. For example, this child may be inherently introverted and sensitive, and then his genes are like the six colors. It is not necessarily that his parents are introverted, so his parents may not be introverted, so their parents think this is a mistake. Or this is a problem that needs to be corrected, and he will think that you will suffer a lot in the future. If the child has problems, I will correct him. The result is that the child not only cannot develop at his own pace, but also there are many characters in his character, such as not being recognized, either fighting or repressing and escaping.
Host: So the last thing is that the parents and the child's normal growth path are locked in a stalemate. It is very likely that the child will be locked in a stalemate with himself in the later stages of life.
Guest: Yes, and then there will be some opportunities. Some people are more and more frustrated, but you really let me go back and push. You say that this person is because of his character or his genes. I don't know, but I know that in terms of statistical probability, some people may become stronger and stronger, while others may collapse for thousands of miles.
Compere: Is there any possibility that this child was quite introverted. Then the parents didn't realize that introversion was actually a normal orientation, and they had to try to break up the child in the direction of extroversion. The result is broken. Is there such a thing?
Guest: Yes, but what will I say. First of all, congratulations. Second, that actually proves the child. I don't know whether it is his genes or his parents' way of breaking up that causes his result to be good. For example, the child's genes may be more resilient (capricious.