This is an era of increasingly fierce competition, and few people can not be replaced.
Everyone is wandering in the tide of the times, desperately grasping the floating objects on which to survive, desperately squeezing their heads to swim forward; Everyone dreams of standing on the cusp of the wind and waves and becoming the trendsetter that has attracted the attention of the times.
Instinct or law, "torrent march" seems to be a life creed that we have been taught since childhood and will never make mistakes.
"Go up, go up, go up again", the surrounding voice never stops telling you.
It seems that climbing up is the whole meaning of life.
As a result, we have long been used to "appreciating" the "beautiful" look of people in various circles who are trying their best to climb up.
Because of this, when Hu Ge wanted to leave the entertainment circle for a while and went to the United States for further study, he immediately occupied the circle of friends.
Not because of anything else, but because he stood on the top of the surging tide, he chose torrent to retreat.
Because of the fame and glory, halo applause, wealth and wealth, which people think about and dream of day and night, he said he would not want it.
This is really different from the tireless fresh meat people who earn money every day, and it is seriously contrary to the values that society has given us.
This article was originally written by LinkedIn by Shuibingyue.
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Stop at the peak
Sit and watch the wind rise
I think only in the age of ignorance can people indulge in the splendor of the moment, because the light of wisdom is often continuous and simple.
If I can have the opportunity to study and settle down, I would like to put down everything in front of me.
He said so, and then he did the same.
Now when talking about Hu Ge, more and more people no longer define him as a star, but an actor. As he has always positioned himself.
In 2015, Hu Ge, who experienced nirvana after the disaster, became the most popular mainland actor with two dramas that moved Chinese conscience, Langya Bang and The Disguiser.
Men, women, old and young take everything from girl fans to mother fans. Even the minor editor who doesn't like watching plays is infected by his mother's spirit of watching Lang Ya Bang all night long. Hu Huo CP and Hu Kai CP on Weibo are even more popular.
With such satisfactory answers, he won the most popular actor award in the Golden Eagle Festival. When accepting the award, he bowed his head and said to teacher Xue Jian, "I'm sorry to accept it.".
The acting skill is perfect, the popularity is high, and the film remuneration is rising. It is the peak of our career, which is the hottest.
He suddenly announced that there would be no film and television works in the near future, and that 2017 would be his learning stage to continue his further education.
The visitors were shocked. Only he knew that he was more loyal to himself than the halo.
You and I are also addicted to the dust of fame. He has seen through the ups and downs of life, but it is just a dream.
You and I are also suffering from secular fetters. He has already found his own rhythm.
What is important is that he knows better than anyone that "people can do nothing, and then they can do something." He understands that climbing is endless, and only by taking a step back can we forge ahead.
I am more and more clear about my inner thoughts, my goals and what I want to think. This is really important.
I have never cared about the entertainment industry, but after reading this interview, I never looked at my face.
It is easy to say that life is not affected by external things, but it is not easy to say that you can put it down when you put it down.
In the ever-changing entertainment industry, the wind and the water take turns. It is difficult to predict who will be the favorite in a few years, and it is also difficult to ensure that the loyalty of fans will still be there in a few years, not to mention film pay.
When the wind is blowing and the flowers are blooming, I still know what I want, and have the courage to sacrifice everything in front of me, put my efforts and follow my heart.
The brave retreat from the torrent is not only a respectable attitude towards life, but also a wisdom to keep a proper distance from secular standards.
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Ring of Knowing, Stopping and Being Satisfied
Always take the rush as the heart
It's hard to live in a place of fame since ancient times.
Why should people be the best in the world?
Wen Zhenggong said so.
When the Xiang army led by Zeng Guofan defeated the Taiping Heavenly Kingdom after more than ten years of fighting, the general trend had been achieved.
All his friends, relatives and relatives, including Zuo Zongtang, urged him to become the king of the world.
However, although he has the world in mind, he has no intention of supporting the army. His only book is "rely on the sky to shine on the sea and spend countless flowers, and the mountains and rivers are high minded to know", forcing the generals who supported him to revolt to disperse one after another.
Backing against the sky and facing the sea, you can see countless falling flowers and beautiful scenery.
But these things are not attractive to me. My heart has its own high mountains and flowing water.
Don't judge history, just state.
If you and I had this half state of mind, we would live much more naturally.
Wen Zheng deeply abides by the precept of knowing and stopping contentment, and always takes the rapids as his heart.
Mr. Qi Chao commented on Wen Zhenggong in this way.
The same is true of Fan Li, the merchant saint.
Although he came from a poor family, he is erudite and versatile. Dissatisfied with the dark politics of Chu State at that time, non aristocrats were not allowed to enter the official position, so they went to the State of Yue to assist Goujian.
It was he who helped Goujian to prosper the State of Yue and destroy the State of Wu, thus eliminating the shame of Kuaiji.
However, after his success, he immediately retired from the torrent. After staying away from the court, you can start your business. During this period, he became rich after three times of business and scattered his family wealth three times.
Rich and expensive, they are all floating clouds.
His brave retreat from the torrent did not make him indifferent to others and busy for the rest of his life. Instead, it gave him a new perspective and identity to start again.
The process of constantly approaching your inner heart and talking with yourself is always based on the desire to retreat from the current.
Always take the fast current as the heart, which will trigger more possibilities in your life and restart the switch.
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retreat when sb. feels unable in doing sth.
In fact, retreat is progress
Xiaobian has a sister who is a doctor of a top 5 famous university in China.
When she graduated from master's degree that year, she not only received the offer of Niu Jian's doctor, but also received the job offer from several giant companies in Silicon Valley of the United States and many zero salary treatments in a year. Let me wait for school slag envy.
Everyone felt that she would choose the life of capitalism, enter the Big Silicon Valley, become the general manager, become the CEO, and reach the peak of her life.
However, she lightly rejected all offers and chose to study in our university.
So everyone, including her parents and all her relatives and friends around her, thought that she was crazy. It must be that she was in the wrong position to open the offer.
At this time, she said lightly: "I just want to engage in academic research quietly. My research field is not better than that in China. Why do I have to go? I don't want to work for the company."
"Life is so short, just do what I want to do. You want to go."
"Know what you want" is the confidence and courage of the torrent to retreat bravely.
At this time, the torrent retreat is not a real retreat, but a more sensible advance.
What retreats is the tide of the Jianghu, and what advances is the wave of the heart.
You think I'm retiring, but in fact, I'm getting farther and farther on the track of my life.
Now this sister has already won numerous patents, and domestic and foreign scholarships are soft. You can not only accompany your family while doing academic work, but also gain your own Mr. right, an absolute life winner.
Write at the end
Everyone in the world will enter you, but it is your folly to blindly follow others when you have no clear judgment of the current situation and no clear understanding of yourself.
Bowing his head, he said that everything was too empty.
It is a great wisdom of life to retreat bravely from the torrent and vanish at the peak.
But then again, if you haven't even seen the torrent before, don't talk about retreating.
If you don't join the world, why do you come into the world. The prerequisite is not tenable!
Don't say whether you like it or not if you haven't eaten grapes.
I hope you and I can experience the turbulent current, the prosperity of the world, and see the truth in our hearts.
Mutual encouragement.
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