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Daughter is bullied, father kills his daughter's male deskmate angrily

(2019-05-15 03:00:35)
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 Daughter is bullied, father kills his daughter's male deskmate angrily

I was shocked to see the five small events in Shangrao early in the morning. The cause of the incident is probably that the girl's parents both quit their jobs to accompany the girl at home. The girl's deskmate was a boy. The boy beat the girl every day. The girl told her parents many times that she wanted to study hard. The boy beat her and made her very unhappy. The girl's parents have talked to the boy for many times, but the boy still beats the girl. Girls' parents have also visited teachers and boys' parents for many times. Neither the teacher nor the boy's parents made the boy stop beating the girl.

We don't know to what extent the boys hit girls. It is likely that the boys are cowardly and frivolous, but hitting girls for a long time has made the girl's father lose his mind. At last, the girl's father saw that the communication was fruitless, and the daughter was still beaten, so he rushed into the classroom and stabbed the boy. The boy was sent to hospital and died after rescue. The girl's parents were taken away by the police.

First of all, it is an extreme case that such parents go to school with knives to assassinate boys who bully their daughters. Many parents will not do this. However, the occurrence of this extreme situation has alarmed teachers and most parents.

Secondly, school teachers need to pay attention to the phenomenon of bullying, do a good job in psychological education, and maintain harmony and unity on campus.

Finally, and most importantly, after learning the bad behavior of the child in school, the boy's parents need to take practical actions to comfort and appease the girl, stop their own children from continuing to bully the girl, and can work together with the school teachers and the girl's parents to find ways. This disaster can be avoided by letting girls' parents see the efforts of boys' parents.

This was a tragedy that should not have happened.

An analysis is made of the extreme practices of girl fathers when girls are bullied:

First of all, I would like to express my condolences to the girl's mother. I am surprised that your husband and wife both quit their jobs to accompany their children at home. Ask the girl's father some questions.

Your husband and wife both quit their jobs to care for their children at home, which shows me your love for your children. Dad is in prison, and this will definitely be sentenced again. Then, your daughter's life will not end suddenly. Since then, she has been bullied by worse men. Who will accompany and protect her? Daughter's life is bitter and sweet. Can father share it with his daughter?

Girl dad, you are too impulsive to use your head to weigh your interests. It's really annoying that boys at the same table bully their daughters. If the problem cannot be solved through teachers or schools, the parents of the other party will not show up. Instead, they can teach their daughter to fight back, or they can teach the boy a lesson to make the boy afraid and warn him. If they hit their daughter again, they will beat him again. You can also ask for changing seats, shifts, or even schools. In this way, the father and daughter are still a happy family.

Parents of girls, if your daughter is bullied, you can solve it with wisdom and set a good example for her. It's terrible that you cut a boy who is only 10 years old! The first thing that scares you is your daughter, how she will get along with her classmates in the future, and how she will face the different eyes of her classmates.

Girl dad, you don't know where the boy's home is. The boy's father doesn't show up. There are some ways.

For example, one of my client parents also encountered such a situation. His son was always bullied by bear children at school. Because he was bullied, his son did not go to school. He came to me to ask his son to go back to school. If you want your son to go back to school, you must get rid of the bear child. If you don't bully your son, he will dare to go back to school. The parents of the bear child did not show up.

I gave advice to the client, who stopped the bear at the school gate and held the teacher. The son of the client was taken by his mother and watched. The police are here, and so are the parents of the bear child. The client said to the parents of the bear child in front of him, "Let's fight each other to the death. You can beat me. I don't care how your son bullies my son.". The parents of the bear children apologized again and again. The police also reasoned with the bear child. Since then, Bear Boy has never bullied his client's son again.

The daughter was bullied. Campus violence is annoying, to fight back, to protect themselves. This extreme way of punishing school violence by violence also completely destroyed her, leaving her daughter no longer protected by her father. It is not worth the loss.

There is another key point for girls to be bullied. We don't know how girls are bullied at school. Whether the teacher is beaten and cried every day or not, the teacher doesn't care about it or can't control it, and won't transfer the seat (if so, the teacher can be held accountable). It's still cat paw playing. Girls are just used to complaining.

Both the girl's parents quit their jobs to take care of their children at home. What kind of wholehearted care is this? We don't know whether it is appropriate or excessive.

But no matter what, the law is merciless when it kills the boy.

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