A woman who is full of confidence has a very comfortable life. She immerses herself in her own happiness all day and never thinks that she will find herself unfortunately.
When I was shopping, I suddenly found that Zhou Lang, his man, was holding hands with another woman, and her husband took good care of that woman. She was stunned at once, and then rushed to scold the woman, but the woman smiled at her and said, "I don't care about you. I'm crazy.". After saying that, he took Zhou Lang's arm and floated away. What made her even more unacceptable was that, in the face of everyone's astonishment, Zhou Lang calmly said to her, Miss, we don't know you.
Back home, only three days later, my eyes were red, my hair was dry and messy, my skin was wrinkled, my color was gray and dull, my voice was torn and hoarse, my waist was loose and my back was bent when I stood up, and I seemed to be old all of a sudden. Maosai looked at himself in the mirror and suddenly felt that the sky was dark and the earth was dark. When she woke up, she was still lying on the ground, with no one beside her, and no living creature beside her, even if there was a dog beside her, it was good. She was alone in the empty room.
Mao Sai cried again. She couldn't figure out how this familiar scene could happen to her. Previously, her husband was someone else's husband, and that was how she faced his ex-wife. Now, this husband has been attracted by other mistresses.
After many setbacks, Mao Sai finally came to me for psychological consultation. She neither wanted to suffer so much nor lose her husband, and she doubted whether she had been punished.
According to the psychological consultation, Mao Sai is the darling of her parents and grew up in their doting, but her parents are not very close and always quarrel. Her parents were not very rich, and her mother always said that her father was incompetent. Many parents quarrel. Mao Sai doesn't think that her parents' quarrels have any impact on her. Many people's home conditions are not very good, and Mao Sai doesn't think there is anything. But Maosai's parents have repeatedly given Maosai a direction in life. He must live the best life. With a house and a car, the richer the better. We must marry the best husband. He is rich and powerful. He dotes on her and treats her better than his parents.
Maosai's parents raised her according to this standard. No matter how poor she was, they would rather economize on their own clothes and give their children the best living conditions. Mao Sai learned piano at a very young age. She passed the eighth grade of piano and also learned zither. She passed the tenth grade of zither and learned dance and painting and performance. In short, she is versatile, looks very temperament and stylish.
Maosai's parents sold her house for her to go abroad for gold plating. They returned home with a master's degree a year and entrusted someone to arrange her to work in a state-owned enterprise after returning home. Our parents said that we have tried our best, and the future depends on you. When Mao Sai reached the age of marriage, her parents hoped that she could find a rich husband and dote on her husband. She was more than ten years old, and her marital status did not matter, as long as she had no children and no parents in law. Hehe, it's OK to have a mother-in-law. She has her own high pension and assets. She can take care of her. She is also very good.
Mao Sai fell in love when he was in high school. Of course, it was fun. Nothing serious. However, she was pregnant carelessly at that time, which made her very uncomfortable. Those are the past. They are all pediatrics. When we go to college, we will not be so stupid to fall in love and get pregnant and injured. At this time, the injured are those childish, silly boys. She never thought of marrying them at all, but she was lonely and needed someone to play with her, buy something to eat, and have a silly boy to pay for her.
Mao Sai is very charming, very coquettish, very well dressed and very feminine. At the age of 16 or 17, she learned another skill by heart - sex skills.
The boys who had sex with Mao Sai would be fascinated by her.
When she was 25 years old, Mao Sai had no appetite for those young men. She wanted to find a suitable person to marry. That is to get a ticket to ensure the life.
At the age of 26, Mao Sai met Zhou Lang.
Zhou Lang is a successful person to some extent. He has assets of over 100 million yuan and is just 41 years old. Although the appearance is ordinary, it shows the demeanor of successful men everywhere. Zhou Lang has a wife who is one year older than himself, and a son who is 13 years old. Mao Sai met him in a business forum. He said a few more words and sat down together for a while. She looked at Zhou Lang more and Zhou Lang dated her.
Mao Sai doesn't like going to work and being constrained. She likes freedom.
Mao Sai said that there is money to spend, food to eat, places to play, leisure time reading, surfing the Internet, playing cards, listening to concerts, watching operas, shopping malls, doing beauty and health care, taking part in a high-end training class, which is called life.
Of course, after trying his hand with Zhou Lang, Zhou Lang soon fell under Mao Sai's pomegranate skirt, unable to extricate himself. Zhou Lang's wife is noisy and noisy. It doesn't work. At that time, Mao Sai said to Zhou Lang's wife, "I just love Zhou Lang, and I will follow him all my life.". And talk with Zhou Lang's wife elegantly. You are now the third child in our love. Zhou Lang doesn't love you anymore. What are you still shamelessly pestering Zhou Lang for? Later, An Wei and Zhou Lang's wife said, "Let me talk to Zhou Lang and ask him to give more money to you and the children. You can live a good life. You can also dress up and marry a man. There will always be men who love you.". Zhou Lang's ex-wife gritted her teeth and left, taking the child away as Mao Sai wished. It only took one and a half years.
Maosai's parents are very proud that his daughter has caught a golden tortoise husband. They come from their hometown to live in a new house with their daughter. They have spent money, had food, had places to play, played cards, went shopping, and maintained their health. They live a rich and comfortable life together.
After only two years of this life, Zhou Lang began not to return home at night, and limited the expenses of Maosai. Maosai's parents saw that his son-in-law was not looking right, so they went back to their hometown. The reason why Zhou Lang controlled the spending of Maosai was that several companies suffered losses due to the financial crisis. Mao Sai was very dissatisfied and got involved in Zhou Lang's business. As a result, the sweet days of the two ended. Suspicion, quarreling and abusive three-step music played together in a loud and vigorous way.
Zhou Lang's business is not really depressed. Although there are some fluctuations, it is just a minor injury. Mao Sai knew that Zhou Lang was dissatisfied with her. She could not believe that she was young, sexy and charming. How could she lose her attraction to Zhou Lang so quickly. She began to lose confidence, and then doubted everything. She often lost her temper with her parents and wept. I went to the hospital and was diagnosed as manic. She took medicine actively without telling Zhou Lang, but it didn't work.
During the consultation, Zhou Lang was very uncooperative. He thought he had no problem and that he was being calculated by Mao Sai. His comment on Mausai: This woman is a vase, a pet, not a real woman. When you encounter difficulties and setbacks in your life or career, she cannot give you any support, or even find a common language. She will only play and enjoy. She can't bear anything, including her father's illness in hospital, and doesn't know what to do. She won't sit down to accompany her sick father, make him some delicious food, comfort him, and she will only ask me, no matter how busy I am, she will act coquettishly with me, and make me do what she thinks I should do. She married me just to enjoy herself. What she did was to do more tricks on her meat. After a long time, I was tired of it. However, I have been married, and I don't want to do anything about it. It's nothing to keep her for the rest of my life. Teacher, please tell her that it's enough for me to have a son, and she doesn't need to have another child for me. She can just take care of herself. Don't give birth to a child at that time, and she won't take care of herself, which will give me a lot of trouble. When the time comes, two people quarrel to take care of the child, and the child grows up to be a problem person, which will make trouble for me. For her divorce from her wife, I have been worthy of her.
I conveyed Zhou Lang's words to Maosai to see how Maosai reflected. Mao Sai immediately burst into tears and said, "I love him very much and I want to live with him forever.". Why is he so heartless? How could he do this to me? He said that he loved me the most. I was sexy and attractive, and filled him with male passion in sexual life. Why did he say that it changed? I am so much younger than him. I married him to enjoy life with him. He promised me so. Why is he so dissatisfied with me? What's wrong with me?
First, I pacify Mao Sai to ease her mood. Then, she made a series of analyses to answer her questions.
1、 Maosai is a self-centered, extreme pursuit of enjoyment. Apart from enjoyment, she never thought about what she should undertake. Including her parents, she thinks that if she married Zhou Lang, Zhou Lang should take good care of his parents and be more filial than himself.
2、 Mao Sai had no sense of support for survival and put the pressure of survival on one person. She never thought about how to manage her own life, but how to use her own capital once and for all.
3、 In his marriage, Mao Sai felt that he could enjoy life when he was young and beautiful, thus throwing all the twists of life to Zhou Lang. Let Zhou Lang be in a state of isolation and exhaustion. Come back to suffer her complaints, small temper.
4、 Mao Sai thinks that love is the love between two people.
5、 Maosai believes that by making some sexy and cute gestures, capturing men with sex, and being young and beautiful, a teenage man who is older than her can promise her happiness and stability in life.
6、 The family training direction of poor son and rich daughter pays too much attention to the cultivation of female gender charm, resulting in the lack of independence and other abilities
7、 The past experience of sexual intercourse with men has made Mao Sai overconfident, and some of them are arrogant and arrogant.
8、 Once Zhou Lang divorced, he lost trust in marriage. The entanglement of multiple women around him makes him more and more unable to find emotional trust and destination. His most nostalgic person is his ex-wife who fought for a career with him and gave birth to a son. He doesn't want to divorce but just doesn't want to bother again.
9、 In this world, if there is a mistress, there is a mistress behind the mistress. If you don't manage well, whose marriage can be well protected. Age difference is not a preservative for marriage!
The problem can only be solved through Maosai. After a year and a half of psychological consultation, Mao Sai had his own shop and two employees under the guidance of his teacher. At the same time, he kept his home in order and arranged three meals a day in an orderly manner. At this time, she asked for divorce. Zhou Lang was very surprised. After hesitating for some time, he returned, became gentle with Mao Sai again, and planned to have a child with Mao Sai.
Message from the psychological consultant: Man is a social animal with independence and creativity. He can rely on others and can also rely on others. There are both men and women. If you put people aside and only play with both sexes, you can only perform sexual intercourse, which can bring temporary intercourse. At this time, sex is human entertainment, and people who play with sex can only become sex toys. If independence is lost again, it will only be the sex toy of others. Only two people with sex, who put people first, create life independently and boldly, give, support and appreciate each other, can deduce a marriage and a love that moves the world. Only two people who have the ability to love others and enjoy the love given by others can form a solid and warm home, raise their children and support their parents, so that life can continue and love can last forever.
(Author: Han Meiling, Beijing Meiling Psychological Consultation Center, please indicate the source of the article if reprinted: www.xl699. com)
