After consulting, the assistant let me see her One of QQ She didn't know how to deal with the communication record.
It was a ten year old boy who communicated with the assistant. The boy hoped that we could help him and begged the assistant not to tell his mother about his situation. He was afraid that his mother would get angry and hit him. After getting the assistant's guarantee, the boy told the story.
The boy said that his penis was very painful, his asshole was bleeding again, and there was blood on his underpants. He was afraid that his mother would find out. He said that several times when his mother changed her underwear, she asked why there was blood on her underwear? At that time, I lied and said that it was accidentally broken. Mother said she would beat him hard if she broke it carelessly.
He said it was made by a good friend of his mother. That aunt is very kind to herself, and she often goes to his home to play. Every time, she brings him a lot of delicious food. Once my aunt took me to her house to play. She made him a lot of delicious food and played games with him. In the game, the aunt took off the boy's pants and touched the boy's chicken with her hand. The boy said that he felt very comfortable at that time. When he came back from his aunt's house, she gave him fifty Tell your child not to tell anyone about it.
Since then, when there is no one else. Auntie will make his chickens. Every time that aunt would give him some money and tell him not to tell anyone. The child said that it would not be fun later, and the aunt would pick his asshole with her hand, which was very painful. When he didn't want to do this, his aunt began to frighten her. Now when he goes to play at his aunt's house, he feels very afraid. The child said that his aunt had hurt him again today, and he was afraid now.
This is sexual harm to children.
After learning about the situation, I communicated with the child and said that I could help you. You told me your mother's contact information. I communicated with my mother to ensure that she would not hit you and that the aunt would not bully you again. It was gratifying that the child hesitated for a while and told me the phone number.
Mother was shocked and angry at this. She couldn't figure out why her friends would do such things to their children. I told my child's mother not to be impulsive, to handle this matter rationally, and not to hurt the child again because of improper handling. I gave my mother four suggestions:
I Don't scold children, it's not their fault;
II Take the child to the hospital for an examination;
III Give the child psychological comfort.
IV Prevent relatives and friends with unfaithful sexual orientation.
A few days later, the child communicated with the assistant online and said that his mother had taken him to the hospital for examination instead of beating him. That aunt is not hurting him now.
Many parents have such misconceptions:
1、 Sexual harassment and sexual assault need to be prevented only after children enter puberty. In fact, more and more children suffer from sexual assault in adolescence, because children are very young at this time, lack discrimination and judgment, and parents are careless in prevention. Children are more vulnerable at this time.
2、 Children's sexual assault targets are girls, and boys will not be sexually assaulted. Because some people have sexual orientation problems or abnormal psychology, such as pedophilia. Therefore, boys will also become the object of sexual assault.
3、 It is strangers who need to be prevented from child sexual assault. In fact, more child sexual abuse occurs in acquaintances, such as relatives, friends, neighbors, teachers, etc. Because they are familiar with each other, they have more opportunities to approach their children, because being familiar with them is also less likely to arouse the vigilance and prevention of parents and children.
I have received many cases in consultation, because after early sexual assault, there was no timely psychological assistance, which left a serious psychological trauma, leading to serious psychological barriers in adulthood. If the child is unlucky to suffer from sexual assault, he must be given psychological assistance in time. such It just hurts children Her body did not hurt her heart and would not let children The soul is trapped in the abyss of unbearable pain. When the body and body are healed, they can still grow healthily.
