"Children tend to show a high level of understanding in his talent field." Dai Yuqiang said with a smile, "I think if parents cultivate him, they should respect the child's talent, find ways to find his strengths, and then cultivate him. He clearly has no talent for music, so it is not possible to let him become a singer." He said frankly that it is easy for his daughter to learn to sing, It was easier than learning mathematics, physics and chemistry, which made her stick to the path she chose.
Dai Yuqiang: In a word, interest is the best teacher. Some children really like the piano, while others don't learn it. In any case, let him learn what he likes first. If he has a continuous interest, if you guide him moderately, I think it is OK. Don't force him.
Sina parenting: Have you ever asked your daughter to study strictly?
>Dai Yuqiang: It's easy for her to sing. She should sing. She was admitted to Harvard, Stanford and Peking University. If she was unhappy, she would not go to school. In my opinion, happiness is the most important factor for success in the future.
Sina parenting: How do you feel after listening to the album released by your daughter at the age of 10?
>Dai Yuqiang: I was rehearsing an opera in Milan. Her mother called and said that her child had recorded a disc. When I heard her sing, my tears fell off. It was really a heavenly voice. It was my daughter. I was so moved and proud.
Dai Yuqiang has always said that his best work is his daughter, and frankly said that when his daughter gets married, he must tell his son-in-law: "You are lucky, silly boy. I gave you such an excellent daughter, but you should be careful. You have to take good care of me. If you can't take good care of me, I will clean you up." The father and daughter have made an agreement for a long time, My daughter had to be decided by her father before she was 18 years old. If she had anything to ask. In this way, father and daughter moved each other, lived together proudly and grew up together.
Sina parenting: Do you remember when your daughter's birthday is?
>Dai Yuqiang: Don't ask, remember very clearly, the daughter is a Leo. I can't remember my birthday. Sometimes I spend it with my daughter, sometimes with my wife, and I enjoy it once a year.
Sina Parenting: What does my daughter like most and dislike most?
>Dai Yuqiang: She likes Malatang best, but I can't do it. It seems that she doesn't like anything. Generally, like the coarse food we ate as children, this generation of children can't eat it. They have small throat and can't swallow it. Sometimes, she will eat some Wowotou.
Sina parenting: Have you ever paid attention to your daughter's feelings?
>Dai Yuqiang: When the child is old, she always has a few good friends or something. When she has more contact with boys, I will remind her to be prudent, sometimes speaking more forcefully, and to be self respecting. That's all.
Speaking of his daughter's choice of music, Dai Yuqiang also laughed that he wanted to stop her, because he knew it was very hard to become a professional musician.
The daughter knew that her father was still reciting words and rehearsing constantly. A performance would have to be rehearsed for several months. Dai Yuqiang also told her that you could choose whether you wanted to sing opera or be a pop star. Anyway, Dad's work is very hard. You should know how to do it yourself.
Dai Yuqiang said frankly that he was a happy father. Every time his daughter came back from the United States, she would bring him a gift, even a small thing, as long as her daughter had the filial piety.
Parents should not think about whether their children have artistic talent. They must let them contact with art training and music. It is better for them to understand something than not, no matter what their children will do in the future.
The foundation of music, such as audition and music theory, is better from primary school. If you find that children really have talent, you can cultivate them.
When children reach puberty, they should stop singing and try to protect their voices. Generally, girls will rest for several years after they are 12 or 13 years old. Boys stop singing from the age of 13 to 16. At the age of 17 or 18, if he is still interested and has a good voice, he should train him.
