Snow : He is 13 years old this year. Because he is tall, he is already 1.81 meters old, big and small, which also makes me very proud. He is a child with big and small men. I used to hold him, but now he holds me. Sometimes when I go out, I say that you really suffer a lot. People think you are 15 or 16 years old, but in fact you are 13 years old. So I said your behavior must be as correct as that of 15 or 16 years old.

Snow In my son's eyes, I should be a very ordinary mother. Sometimes he will ask me why people know you. I always say that in your heart, mother is such an ordinary mother. I always hope to achieve such an image. But my mother must be beautiful. She is very tasteful and particular about life, because I hope to influence my children through myself. In my eyes, my son should be a sensible and naughty child, and occasionally make me angry.

There is a saying that many parents take it as a golden rule to raise children from poverty and raise daughters from wealth. Bai Xue has a different understanding of this. She thinks that now the conditions are good, it is impossible for you to let your son eat meat and pickles, but don't be too greedy. If your son can only eat one piece of meat, he will eat ten pieces of meat. If you don't let him eat, it is already poor.

Snow: In terms of material matters, I admit that I didn't let my children suffer too much. In spirit, I was poor when I was young. For example, we lived downstairs with a child who lived on rags. The child was about the same age as my son. They were good friends since childhood. Up to now, they have come to see my son every summer vacation. He has a good friendship and will go to their home. Now my son doesn't throw away the bottles he has drunk. He has to store them and give them to his father every once in a while. Sometimes he also gives basketball shoes to him.

I think it is very happy for my son to know that I have such materials and my mother who loves me so much today through such subtle ways of poor support. Sometimes I will be very busy and can't accompany him. He also quite understands me and will say: Mom, you can go. Don't worry, I will study hard.

Snow: My personality is not very angry. If I get angry, I will be very sad. Once, all the students in the school (dormitory) asked for leave. He was the only one who wanted to go home early at night. I didn't agree, so he cried with me on the phone. I said that since the children didn't leave, there must be a reason why they didn't leave. There were special reasons for others to leave. Since you didn't have special reasons to go home, you should obey the school rules.

Later, he cried with me and said, "Although you are a gentle woman, you are actually a strong woman." Of course, the quarrel was much more serious than I said. But to my great relief, he called back five minutes later and said, "Mom, I'm sorry. I was too fierce just now and said something that hurt you.".

Later, the teacher told me that many children would not tell their mothers what was on their minds. They would hold their own and fight, and express it in another way. In fact, it is good that your son can tell you and vent it.

If the son is the mother's little cotton padded jacket, then every mother loves her children in a different way. Snow White said that she talked about things with her son for a short time, never for a long time, because she felt that her son could not listen. Now there is WeChat, and she will communicate with her son through text.