Journey to the West is a mythical novel. The truth in the book reveals human nature and contains the way of dealing with people
Although Journey to the West is a mythical novel, there are some true words in the book that reveal human nature and contain the way of life! ——Big trees attract wind and shake trees. People are famous and lose people! From the 33rd chapter, it means that trees grow too high and too big, but they are easily blown down by strong wind; The world has been tirelessly pursuing a higher reputation, but they do not know that they will be harmed by it in the end. As the saying goes, "When trees are beautiful in the forest, the wind will destroy them; when they are piled up on the bank, the current will flow; when they are higher than others, people will not." People will be jealous if they are too clever. When shooting, don't put yourself in an overly prominent position in the process of dealing with people. Be careful in everything. Don't be too publicity, arrogant or arrogant, so as not to become the target of attack. ——Look at the Buddha's face without looking at the monk's face. From the 31st chapter, the definition is to ask a third person to help or forgive a person, or to move out of a relationship with another person in order to ask for help. Interpersonal communication is indeed a kind of knowledge, and "looking at the face of the Buddha without looking at the face of the monk" can be regarded as a superb way of dealing with people. When dealing with affairs, we should learn to keep our vision open and long-term, learn to respect, understand and tolerate others, and make our own life path wider and smoother. ——It is hard to be a master without suffering. From the 32nd chapter, "How can you get the fragrance of plum blossom without suffering from cold?". No one can casually succeed. Those who become famous must have suffered a lot. ——When will we stop competing for fame and profit? Getting up early and sleeping late is not free! From the first time, it means that people spend all their time in pursuit of fame and interests, and they don't know when to stop. In life, we are always busy for fame and wealth. We not only sacrifice our rest time, but also lose our freedom of life and can't really enjoy the beauty of life. Therefore, we should get rid of the shackles of fame and wealth and pursue inner freedom and true happiness. Only by letting go of obsession can we truly feel the beauty and happiness of life. ——A small boat with the house, thousands of waves without fear. From the ninth chapter, it means that you are like being on a small boat, enjoying yourself in the vastness of the river. Even if you are surrounded by deep and thick smoke, you can't see the way ahead clearly, you are not afraid. Calm and calm, calm and self-confident, only such a person can maintain inner peace and tranquility even in the unpredictable environment. ——Nature is sure to know the calm of the waves, and body security is self aware of the breeze. From the ninth chapter, it means that only when one is at peace with oneself can one feel the peace of the outside world, and only when one is at peace with oneself can one be more aware of the existence of the breeze. This sentence reveals the relationship between inner peace and the peace of the external world, and emphasizes the importance of human's inner state for perceiving and responding to the external environment. Keep quiet and peaceful in your heart, it can make us live a more calm and leisurely life. ——Those who strive for fame lose their bodies because of their name; Those who take profits die for profits; Those who are honored will sleep with a tiger in their arms; Those who are gracious will go away. From the ninth chapter, it means that people who always strive for fame and fortune will lose themselves and even endanger their own lives; People who always pursue interests are often ruined by greed, and lose both money and people; People who have been granted titles are like sleeping with a tiger in their arms. They are always in danger; People who receive favors may be afraid of losing, just like those with snakes in their sleeves. They accept on the surface, but in fact they are in fear. It reminds us that in the process of pursuing fame and wealth, we should always keep a clear mind, not be confused by the so-called fame and wealth, and avoid falling into a dangerous situation. ——When it is convenient to travel, you can forgive others. From the 81st round, it means that when we act, when we have the opportunity to help others, we will lend a helping hand. In case of conflict, if you can forgive others, you should be lenient and not too concerned about gains and losses. "Convenient to others, convenient to yourself" "Give roses to others, and you will have lingering fragrance in your hand". "If we forgive others, we can make them do better". Indeed, to forgive others is to treat yourself well, and you will gain inner peace and freedom in tolerance. A kind-hearted person is very willing to help others in what he can do, while a tolerant person will not be petty and fussy. Fellow readers, what truth have you found out? You can write it in the message area at the back. Let's study together!