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Friend C 8 months ago
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Friend C 9 months ago
Life observation A good way to forget one unimportant thing is to focus on another important/interesting thing.
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Friend C March 22, 2023
Life observation I watched a very innocent movie again in the evening. I have a feeling that movies are beautiful, and we can get life inspiration or good feelings from them. But the movie is not real life. If you imagine that your life will have the same plot as that in the movie, you will be disappointed But that's enough in itself
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Friend C March 19, 2023
Life observation
1. Most of the time, self-discipline is not a self drive that can be sustained, but there are many objective conditions. One of them is the state of the body. The worse your body is, the harder it is to discipline yourself. For example, after a busy day, it is difficult to exercise self-discipline, or improve yourself
2. Time for rest and life is as important as work. I often procrastinate on other things because I feel that although I waste some time here, it's a big deal that I have less rest in the afternoon, or less rest in the evening, or it's a big deal that I stay up late, so I will give myself an excuse to be lazy at the moment. Now I think it is very wrong. A person's energy in a day is limited. We should not use the future time to overdraw to consume now. Otherwise, it will inevitably lead to a vicious circle of worse rest and worse spirit. Therefore, rest and entertainment time must be guaranteed. Even if time is wasted in other places, this part of time cannot be regarded as a part that can be appropriated at will.
When we have this awareness, when we are procrastinating, we should be clear about the consequences, that is, less work will be completed today, rather than the false idea that we can complete the work with quality and quantity guaranteed by taking chances to work overtime at night.
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Friend C February 1, 2023
😮 💨 "Don't be discouraged" Sometimes I feel that I am not doing well in some things one day. I feel I need to constantly suggest that I am acceptable. It is acceptable to do something badly, but don't give up and continue to do it! Life observation
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Friend C January 29, 2023
Life observation What is "work as work" work ?
Occupation (English: Job) is a kind of daily regular labor, whose purpose is to exchange labor income (that is, salary) to maintain life needs, and also symbolize social status and reputation. The specialized industry in the workplace is the classification of labor. Occupation is the product of social division of labor. In the western society with developed commodity economy, it usually refers to social work with certain expertise. There are many ways of division, but they are not fixed. They are usually based on the industry or industry they are engaged in, and mixed with the characteristics of the work. Profession in English corresponds to profession or occupation, and there are differences in the concept as a term.
Therefore, the nature of work determines that it is not an easy thing, and it also determines that it is a thing needed to earn income from labor to maintain a living. Don't put the cart before the horse and give up life for work. What is life? I think it is anything that satisfies my spiritual life (meaningful or meaningless, happy or boring). Don't forget that we need life because of work every day!
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Friend C January 21, 2023
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Friend C January 20, 2023
Life observation There is a word describing friendship in Riman, "fetters", which I think is very interesting. In fact, any relationship needs to be fettered. It may be that we have worked together for a goal, or that there are some private secrets that are only known by both parties. If two people always respect each other and do not owe each other, it is difficult to have a stable and real relationship.
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Friend C January 18, 2023
📝 Daily record I feel a kind of inertia in my work Life observation If you keep working, you will constantly want to get a sense of achievement from your work, so that you forget to rest. Similarly, if you take a break, you will soon stop working and indulge in the comfort of venting.
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Friend C November 17, 2022
In the evening, he heard the situation of a friend who had played since childhood. He was studying for graduate school. I feel that there are too many unsatisfactory things in the world and too many poor people. Don't feel miserable. Of course, there are lucky ones with a happy family and free economy. In fact, there are many unhappy stories everywhere. When you come to a place where water is poor, sit and watch the clouds rise. Life observation
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Friend C November 17, 2022
Life observation 📝 Daily record Yesterday I sent a notice suggesting home, so today I work at home all day. I found that home efficiency is really low. First of all, it is easy to be distracted because I don't have the concentration in the company at home; Secondly, I am used to the Windows desktop, and the performance of the Macos is much worse. I used to hate going to work in the work area, and I felt very stressed, but I wasted time at home and was not efficient. The pressure was even greater And there is no way to distinguish work from life There is no best way to work
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Friend C November 11, 2022
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Friend C September 22, 2022
📝 Daily record Several social stages: Life observation
• I dare not say anything, for fear of making mistakes, for fear of not being answered, for fear of embarrassment
• Dare to say anything, don't care about other people's reaction, you can relieve embarrassment and laugh yourself
• Know when to interrupt, answer, and say something that makes everyone happy
  I don't know the advanced stage. It needs to be supplemented
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Friend C September 7, 2022
Life always likes to make excuses. For example, the efficiency of working at home is not high. You can blame yourself for taking up time to cook. In the company, the efficiency is not high. You can blame people around you for tapping the keyboard and speaking too loudly. You can always find an excuse and tell yourself, not my fault。 If something is not done or done well, either this person has affected himself or that thing has interfered with him, but it is not the main reason. The day ended when I didn't do anything after work. Either it rained tonight, or the noise from the next room was too noisy, or I was too tired today.
At the end of one episode of "Top Mom" that I watched at night, Bonnie read a letter to her mother in front of her grave. At the end of the letter is Bonnie's venting, "because of you" has been yelling for several times. Before her mother died, she always blamed her mother for her drinking, drug abuse, and many terrible things she had done before. But what she didn't want to admit was that it was an excuse. Others had no responsibility for their own life, and finding an excuse was actually just an escape from responsibility.

It is difficult to admit that you are not active enough and should be responsible for everything. If you are unhappy, do things poorly, and are not efficient, there is no excuse, do not find any excuse. See if there are some small behaviors that can be changed (if not, don't feel sorry for yourself)
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