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18 years old Maybe this is the last day to become a "minor" -
19 If you come back -
20 years old We are different from each other when we meet -
21 years old Don't look back, don't forget (7-day tour) -
22 Heart wants wild -
23 years old Difficulties in life
No excuses, no complaints
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I can't sleep. It's because of the noise at night. It's because I eat too much at night. It's because the wind is too strong on the way back. It's because I'm tired from work. -
Internal social work, blame some childhood experiences, blame parents -
Don't want to study/work inefficiently, blame the environmental noise, blame today's unpleasant things with people -
Life is not rich/interesting enough, blame the people around you for not having the same interests, blame your own living environment, blame the people you meet for not meeting your own needs
I'm sure it's your fault that I didn't love you
I do think it's your fault I've never been in love.
I knew you were ridiculous
I knew it. You're unbelievable.
I'll take you to a high-end restaurant to make you happy
I take you to a nice restaurant to cheer you up,
But you still managed to make me a bad person
and you still find a way to make me the bad guy.
A fancy dinner can't make up for a bad childhood
One nice dinner doesn't make up for a sucky childhood.
Listen, even if I'm the perfect mom
Look, even if I was a perfect parent...
I said "If."
Even that's not enough for you
Even then, it wouldn't have been enough for you,
Because nothing can satisfy you
because nothing's ever enough for you.
If you die alone, there's a reason
And if there's a reason you're gonna be alone forever,
That's why
that's it.
Seeking power inward
I hope you don't get angry with me because of these things
I hope you're not mad at me over all of this.
Well, we have to nip the problem in the bud
Okay, we got to nip this in the bud.
Remember when I first started helping you
Remember when I first started sponsoring you
Let you write down what you are afraid of
and I asked you to do a fear inventory?
Remember. - Maybe you should do it again
Yeah. - Maybe it's time for you to do another one,
Because I don't remember you writing
because I don't remember you writing down,
I'm afraid people don't like me
"I'm terrified that people won't like me."
I didn't write it down. - Why
I didn't write that down. - Why not?
I'm afraid that will make you dislike me
I was afraid it would make you not like me.
Did you see what you were doing
Do you see what you're doing here?
I saw it
Yeah, yeah.
Didn't see
No.
If you always seek approval from others
If you always seek the validation of other people,
You will never be satisfied
you will never be content,
Because you made them your higher power
because you're making them your higher power.
That's how you treat me
You're doing it with me.
Finally, I was just another drunk
Oh, my God, that's Sports with Kane Stevens!
You don't need him to like you
And you don't need him to like you either.
I want it. - No
Yes, I do. u202d- No, you don't.
I didn't have many advantages when I grew up
Look, I didn't have a lot going for me growing up,
But winning people's hearts is one of my specialties
but winning people over was one of my strong suits.
That must work for you, but you don't need it now
And I'm sure it served you, but you don't need it anymore.
Let me ask you, do you like yourself
Let me ask you something. Do you like yourself?
Because you only care about this person
Don't force any dialogue. One episode that impressed me deeply was that Cristy was addicted to gambling. She gambled away all her fucking money for bail. It was still twice. My mother Bonnie hopes her daughter can go to the Mutual Aid Association to quit as soon as possible. But Cristy insists that she is not addicted to gambling. She insists that she has only gambled three times in her life. So they quarreled endlessly. Bonnie Seeks Marjorie *Help * Marjorie asked Cristy if he had taken the initiative to ask for help. If not, don't intervene. Even for the consideration of the other party, if the other party does not seek help, do not always stand on your own position to communicate unless the other party explicitly requests.
It's not as difficult as you think
you didn't think you could get your GED.
You don't think you can go to college
You didn't think you could get into college.
You don't think you can go to law school
You didn't think you could get into law school,
But you did it
but you did all those things.
We always look at the mountains in front of us
We always look at the mountains ahead of us,
Forget that the mountain we climbed is also difficult to climb
and we forget the mountains behind us were just as hard to climb.
Roof repair in sunny days
Don't worry, take your time
I didn't hold on. It's okay
Two "guidelines"
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Don't worry about what didn't happen -
Don't worry about things that have nothing to do with you
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Things you don't participate in -
Things you can't change
Happy things
That's all for this time. See you next time.