Recently, the term "widower's syndrome" has been widely spread on the Internet. The so-called "widower's syndrome" was first proposed by Masters and Johnson, experts in modern sexology and medicine, who revealed a phenomenon caused by long-term abstinence “ Widower syndrome ” , also known as mental impotence, mostly occurs in fifty Male aged over. Most of them were caused by his wife's long-term asexual activities after her death.
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Sun Yuxiao, chief expert of the Humanity Psychological Consultation Center, said that, “ Widower syndrome ” Male psychogenic sexual dysfunction, treatment “ Widower syndrome ” It is suggested that we should take two measures, one is the psychotherapy of emotional catharsis, the other is sexual psychotherapy or sexual therapy. Sun Yuxiao told reporters that patients suffering from this kind of illness should make a big statement and actively strive for customer service.
It is understood that “ Widower syndrome ” In terms of emotional therapy, the problems of each individual will vary greatly, and specific analysis is needed. For example, is it appropriate to deal with grief, and is it psychologically healthy to say goodbye to the dead wife? Has long-term sexual repression caused personality problems or neurological symptoms other than sexual impotence? Are the above two issues and how they are brought into the new marriage or emotion, and what other impacts do they have on the new partner in addition to sexual problems? wait.
In terms of sexual therapy, the Chinese Sexual Society Executive Vice President, Professor of Peking University Medical Department Hu Peicheng told reporters that, “ Widower syndrome ” It is a male sexual dysfunction. Male sexual dysfunction is mostly physical, and psychological only accounts for a small part. Sexual dysfunction, especially male erectile dysfunction, includes many Half of them are physiological reasons, while the psychology is only a small part. People suffering from this psychogenic sexual dysfunction need a comprehensive treatment. Emotional counseling can play an important background role and is the foundation. On this basis, if sex therapy is related to sex, some technical training methods can be used, or some drugs can be used together to gradually awaken the client's sleeping sexual function.
People with psychogenic sexual dysfunction often do not know whether to turn to a psychologist or a male doctor. Hu Peicheng suggested that if you suffer from such psychogenic sexual dysfunction, you should first come to the andrology department to check whether you have any physiological problems, and if not, go to the psychology department again. It is generally recommended that the partner should come to see what problems exist and how to solve them according to the specific situation. This kind of active treatment is better for both parties.
Hu Peicheng told reporters that psychogenic sexual dysfunction is a loss of state, or the inability to complete sexual life normally, which is a great pain for many people. How to help him relieve this pain requires a psychotherapy technique and method. Some people may be ashamed to speak and work, but this problem is a big problem between husband and wife and needs to be solved in time.
In general, this kind of disease should be eliminated before psychological auxiliary treatment. heart reason It is spiritual, so to some extent, the heart reason On the contrary, it will be better than the physiological one. If the physiological organs are deformed or diseased, it is difficult to treat, but if it is psychological, it may be easier to remove the psychological obstacles, adjust the state, and properly do some sexual function guidance, so that the recovery is faster.
