Silence: Who buried the child's interest
Text, pictures/my heart still
In fact, I always wanted to write this article, but after a while, I put it down.
It was a similar event that prompted me to write this article today.
In fact, most of the time, I always thought it was the parents' bad attitude. Destroyed the child's interest. Hurt the child's self-esteem. But there are also those who are accidentally hurt by the environment, especially the sensitive and vulnerable children, who are more likely to be hurt by the external environment. As a mother, everyone hopes that their children can be strong, brave to face everything, and choose to supervise, guide, preach and be considerate. In fact, forget the most important point, we should first understand it from the perspective of children.
The dance class at the beginning of April is also a parent-child report class. One of the links is the mother's performance first, and the children support. The children can't support their mother, so they should be fair. If you support a mother, stand behind her. It's nothing. Mothers are not good at dancing, but the next step is the opposite. Children perform. If a mother thinks that one of the dances is good, she can stand behind the baby and support it. Of course, there can't be a private message only supporting her baby.
I didn't choose this link too early, until there were two babies left, Doudou and Miaomiao, and two mothers. Dou Ma and Miao Ma. Of course, we exchanged support and everyone was happy.
After standing well, I found that there were two mothers standing behind Yaoyao, but Lingling... No one came to support it. There were nearly 20 children in the audience, but Lingling had no support behind her, and Lingma had already supported other children.
Lingling dragged the little skirt and looked at the mothers one by one. I said to the second mother standing behind the Yao Yao beside me: Let's change it. There is no one behind Lingling! The mother didn't think so. She said, "I think Yao Yao dances very well..."... Sweat. I am speechless.
The second lesson is to learn new content. Lingling has been sitting in the corner and no longer participates. Looks sad.
In fact, for children who have just learned dancing for half a year, in addition to three or four children who seem to dance better, more than a dozen others are all of the same level, all of them have outstanding places, and all of them have shortcomings. They can't tell good from bad. I don't know why some mothers are so serious, destroying the interest and happiness of a four and a half year old child.
After this happened, Lingma didn't think much of it, and kept calling Lingling not to sit in the corner and get up and dance. But until the end of the whole class, Lingling didn't participate in it for another minute. Finally, he even lay in front of the mirror.
It's been a month. I never saw Lingling come to dance class again. I often think of those beautiful big eyes that can talk..
I don't know, if that day was not Lingling, but Doudou, what would I do?
If it were you, what would you do when your baby suffered injustice?
I've been puzzled....
1. This is just a small setback that the child will soon forget. Should we encourage the children and help them out of the shadow after the event, or should we pull our baby and the supported baby together and tell the teacher that it should be OK to support both.
2. If the child belongs to the heartless type, or the kind that wants to be open, the kind that doesn't care. In fact, there is no need to worry about it. It really took a long time to pass. I even forget when I turn around. But I think the 5-year-old children, especially the good girls, should be very sad.
In fact, I don't know what I will do. This is just what came to mind later..
I have been thinking that if Lingling Mom could realize this problem at that time, would Lingling still dance happily in this class? Or the mother has an unusual understanding of her baby, and the method of exercise is unknown.
