Wen/Fangfei Piglet
Yu Feihong is so beautiful! It never occurred to me that a middle-aged woman would have such a refined charm. Less is withered, more is vicissitudes, no more, just right. After watching the movie "Care about you", what I thought most was that if I was 50 years old, I would also like to be a woman as delicate as Yu Feihong, as if she had been forgotten by the old man of time.
However, the Goddess can be forgotten by the old man of time, but there are always some memories that we can't get rid of, forget, escape or hide. There are always some people and things that will be deeply engraved in our minds and hearts. This is a very strange thing, because sometimes, when the night is quiet and everything is still, when you are lonely, sometimes you often think of not your favorite person, but the person you missed
People are strange animals, because we all make mistakes, do wrong things, regret some of our own choices, and hurt some of our loved ones. This is why people often say that there is no need to buy regret medicine. But I believe that if the regret medicine is really produced, everyone will have to buy several bottles. Some people regret that they didn't buy a house, some people regret that they didn't join the stock market earlier, and some people may regret that they didn't start their own business. Some people even regret that they didn't go to bed earlier and get up later today... Every day we are adding new regrets to drown yesterday's regrets.
In the trivial superposition of memory, there is always a person we don't want to mention but can't forget. That is, the person who makes himself feel guilty and ashamed to face it all his life. Just as in the movie "Care about you", Ozawa Longfu said: the more buried, the more existing.
Is there anyone in your life who is sorry? No matter how perfect your life is, I believe there must be someone who is sorry. The mention of that person is not a story for outsiders. Just like Sister Zhu, I am very sorry for a former colleague who helped me a lot when we worked together. However, because of some trivial things, they went their separate ways. The common advance and retreat once became strangers and no longer connected. In retrospect, it is their narrowness and conceit that let down a care and trust. Speaking today, it is not a great relief, because many details are vivid but hard to tell.
More often, we will feel guilty for the lover we missed. It's like regretting not being with someone in the past. If we had chosen that person at that time, we would be happier now... But the assumption is that life has finally pushed us to the present position. Regret has no meaning. If we want to continue our life, we must put aside these unhappiness, reconcile with ourselves, and choose to open our hearts and forget. This is the value conveyed by the movie "Care for You".
In fact, this film is a particularly simple story. Yu Feihong played a professional woman who had her own ideals when she was young. But the premature marriage, or even the perfect marriage, became the fetters of her ideal. In desperation, she abandoned her lover and even lost the crystal of love for the sake of her ideal. Although the next life is open and successful, she will never forget the abandoned child and kind-hearted ex husband. So she crossed the mountains, rivers and seas and came to Hokkaido, Japan. Her ex husband's home repented everything she had ever done. She not only got forgiveness, but also finally reconciled with herself.
So what does the movie say? In fact, it's very simple. Teresa Teng's songs are good. I only care about you when time goes by. Some people understand that Yu Feihong is the woman she represents in Caring for You. In fact, Yu Feihong really cares about her ex husband in the film, the person who makes her feel guilty all her life. And think carefully, if a person can make you feel indebted, will he not forgive you when you sincerely repent? So, what the movie actually says is to encourage us to take that step, meet the person who is sorry sincerely, say sorry, and hope to be forgiven, because if you care about him so much, he will also care about you!
