writing / Fangfei Piglet
Do you know the flower language of Dayan flower? Diyan flower is actually one of our common morning glory. It blooms during the day and withers at night. Although its vines break when pulled, they will regenerate once broken. Because of this, there is a feeling of being reborn from death. So it is also used to describe a dangerous relationship. In Japanese, Riyan is used to describe a wife who sends her husband out during the day but falls in love with other men instead of doing housework ... Just like the popular Japanese drama Dayan in Asia.
Now, the film version of Dayan has been released, and the plot tells the story three years after the end of the drama version. Moreover, compared with the drama version, this film is no longer a story of cheating. Because the heroine Sha He has divorced, and the hero Kitano has also prepared for divorce. So this film pays more attention to the damage to the victims' hearts after cheating ——The person who caused such harm also bears the condemnation and anxiety of conscience.
In the play version, Sha He agreed with Beiye not to meet, not to speak, not to leave contact information. However, when she came to the seaside town, Sha He accidentally saw the poster of Beiye lecturing, so her feelings, which had been suppressed for three years, bloomed like a flower in the daytime. After much thought, she decided to attend the lecture. Although she hid in the audience several times, she was still found by Kitano. In this way, the two met again and came back to life. Together, they began to be just each other in the mountain with abundant water and grass The tryst of "talking to yourself".
They don't talk to each other, don't touch their bodies, and don't leave their contact information "Dereliction" is as pure as first love. But their quiet little happiness is actually a hurt to others. The happier they are, the more harm they have done to others. All happiness in this world is based on the misfortune of another group of people. Just like Beiye's wife Nailizi, she has already faced an injury. Now her husband and her former cheating partner have "renewed their old love". Her surprise, amazement, resentment and indignation can be imagined.
Nailizi is poor. Her tolerance and love made her forgive Kitano once. However, tolerance brought about another betrayal. It was clearly an old wound, but it was torn open again, and it was also sprinkled with salt. Even when it was asked by Shahe, even the name was no longer allowed to be called. She committed suicide, and she didn't cherish her own body any more. So it's not surprising that she finally did something out of line like that. Maybe some viewers will hate her, but for the derailer, why not take the blame?
In addition to Naolizi, Shahe and the boss of the shop in the town are also victims of infidelity. He had a decent job and a stable life, but because his wife cheated, he was ashamed and embarrassed. He lost everything and had to hide in his own town to lick his wounds. When he meets Shahe, who is also cheating, he will naturally be moved by his feelings as a victim to Shahe, so he pretends to be close to Shahe and even wants to take advantage of Shahe. This is not surprising. When a woman has cheated, she will leave a very casual impression. Since your moral bottom line has disappeared, it is natural for people to do their best ——Although this is not the case in fact, men tend to think with their lower body, which naturally leads to this association.
For yarn and herself. She could not escape the double choice of morality and heart. She escaped from her original life for three years and lived a poor life. But is it enough to live alone for three years as punishment? When the employees in the hotel gave her a cold look, she still felt that the society did not accept her. She longed for the understanding of the people around her, and finally she got the relief of her conscience. Isn't it because she got the understanding of the boss and Nailizi? Although Nailizi's understanding was false, for her, the cage in her heart was finally broken.
All those who cheat are eager to be accepted. This acceptance is not sympathy, but sincerely regards themselves as equal people, and no one is accused of standing on the moral high ground. In addition, people who cheat are actually more vulnerable and vulnerable than others. Because Hirasa Kitano and himself are people who have cheated, they are obviously more sensitive to cheating than anyone else. I have experienced failed feelings, so I naturally distrust feelings more, lack a sense of security, and think that each other has no sense of responsibility. So a little bit of the wind and grass will be jittery.
From this point of view, even if they love each other and love each other, even if they are extremely happy, they can lie between mountains and rivers to watch fireflies fly, and see the vast galaxy, but can their feelings really last? How will the film end? The feelings gained from the derailment will not have good results after all, but Muxiasha and Kitano Yuichiro are in true love. Will they be punished by fate? These questions will be answered in the film.
