writing / Fangfei Piglet
There are two kinds of love in the world. One is love at first sight. If dry firewood meets a fire, it will burn to ashes instantly. Love is relentless and vigorous. Romantic, exciting and enjoyable. It's like eating instant noodles. It smells delicious when you eat it. But if there is nutrition, it needs to be hand rolled noodles made slowly and carefully. that is The second kind is the love accumulated day by day like a trickle stream. Because of its long history, it has become stronger. In the accumulation of time, love becomes kinship, and separation will hurt.
For everyone, We all long for the first kind of love, because it is romantic. After all, love is about eye contact, and the first impression is very important! What's more, the love of fast food does not mean that you must eat instant noodles. Now fast food is also so developed that you can order a takeaway to have a variety of delicacies, which is absolutely no worse than the taste at home. Especially for those men and women who are desperate for love in today's society, they are starving to death and still waiting for hand rolling love. When they are ready to serve, the taste and taste will be wrong long ago.
However, all kinds of TV dramas and movies now advertise this "Cherish the person in front of you", "The person who loves you most must be the one who has been with you" type love. On the surface, there is nothing wrong, but when you carefully smack it, this kind of treasure of people's love in front of you is simply a pain in the egg. It's like the secret love between Bao Bei and Song Jia in the romantic comedy Lu Yao Knows Ma Li thirty-three The love of the year, really make people feel sad.
Bao Beier plays Lu Yao and Song Jia plays Ma Li. They are kindergarten students. The seeds of love are five It was planted before the age of. Lu Yao accompanied Ma Li throughout the university and later worked. He watched her constantly changing boyfriends, watching her enjoy the sweetness of all kinds of fast food love. Love you in the heart but difficult to open the mouth, has been hesitating in how to say love. I want to express myself, but I'm afraid that even my friends won't have to do it after I express myself - after all, when an acquaintance becomes a stranger, it will be more important than a stranger! No one wants to be the most familiar stranger to each other.
No one has ever pierced this layer of window paper - Loser continues all kinds of unreliable blind dates, and the goddess keeps updating all kinds of excellent male partners. The whole movie process is comic, full of funny scenes. But you will find This kind of successful love expressed only after many years of thinking about the relationship between two people, doesn't it mean that those beautiful youth days that could have been spent together before are wasted?
To declare this matter, there are only two outcomes: success and failure. Lu Yaoyin Afraid of expressing failure without expressing it, I buried this love thirty-three In return, countless men gained the first place. So can it be blamed that Ma Li has been unwilling to trust? If you really love her Even the confession is timid, how can we bear this heavy love? Therefore, Lu Yao's final declaration of success to Ma Li was more for the sake of marriage than love. It's like what Lu Yao said to Ma Li at the airport: "When you thirty I will tell you before I am married. It's just a "bottomless" choice!
They don't have passion at all, let alone love. That's thirty Old husband and wife like friendship! Look Zhu Yawen and Jiao Junyan only use thirty-three Isn't the love that broke out in seconds sweeter and more romantic than Lu Yao and Ma Li? In fact, most "happy" marriages don't have much love, just two people can make do with it. The divorce rate is getting higher and higher, Not that people's sense of responsibility is low, but that they have more love to settle. Therefore, the article uses such a movie of true love and cherishing the people in front of us to reveal the cruellest truth in love: Do you still cherish the people in front of you? Have you been blind for so many years? Why did you go there?!