Wu Youjian, a 76 year old retired editor and gay mother, took a photo in the street before leaving Zhapo, Yangjiang, Guangdong, and returning to Guangzhou on February 20, 2024.
Reply the letter of help on the night of returning to Guangzhou
My friends and I spent five or six days in Zhapo. The sunshine was the most brilliant when we returned to Guangzhou on February 20. Pack up and say goodbye to the host of the home stay and thank each other. Find a restaurant on the street, drink pig liver and medlar leaf soup, and eat fried dumplings with leeks. For people in Guangzhou who love soup, this vegetable leaf and finely cut pig liver are not enough. The taste of fried dumplings is OK, but compared with some stores in Guangzhou, the full ingredients are not enough. After lunch, I took a quiet road to the bus station. When I saw the white walls and red lanterns with distinctive decoration, I took two pictures; Passing through an old brick wall covered with moss, I don't know where it is, and all kinds of trees grow savagely. I leaned against the wall and took several pictures. Anyway, I had to wait for the bus to arrive early, so I'd rather take photos as practice.
Recently, I didn't get enough sleep. On the last day of the 19th, I had a good time. I went to Luozhou in the morning and Mawei Island in the afternoon, and walked nearly 17000 steps. Sleep immediately after getting on the bus. In addition to getting off the bus in Yangjiang for half an hour, they sleep on the bus and try to catch up on sleep. For dinner, go to Wende Road to drink the original black bone chicken stewed with coconut. Each cup costs 23 yuan, which is genuine and mellow. It is worthy of being a time-honored brand. Then I ate Zhusheng noodles and shrimp wonton at Dezheng Road. The big bowl was only 14 yuan, and the taste was old Guangzhou. This is a new store, which is very affordable. It seems that diners like me will definitely visit again.
Walking in the streets of Yangcheng at night, the weather is very warm. Wearing a short sleeved T-shirt, it feels like summer. Go home and tidy up your belongings. Turn on the computer and work normally. I wanted to send a picture and text to report that I was safe and had a rest. Unexpectedly, I received a letter from a gay man asking for help, so I replied that it was the early morning of the 21st. I wanted to send a message on the 20th. I hope my reply will be helpful to this gay man.
He 22:54 Hello, auntie, I'm sorry to disturb you so late. I am a comrade working in Shanghai this year thirty-three Today, my sister helped me come out to my parents. My parents cried bitterly and I felt very sad. But I hope I can help my parents get through this. I want to ask my aunt if she has a public service consultation phone number, which can give my parents more channels to know about our group. Because my parents are farmers, they don't use the Internet to query information. I can't find a reliable channel on the Internet, so I take the liberty to disturb my aunt. If she has some, can you share some reliable consultation channels with me? Thank you very much. Sorry to disturb you so late.
I 23:31 Hello! I just returned to Guangzhou this evening after a few days of traveling abroad. Read the letter at night, understand your inner anxiety, and immediately reply simply. First of all, I should have told my parents when I came out of the closet, not let my sister tell the truth for you. After I said that, I would continue to accompany my parents, patiently explain what homosexuality is and what plans you have for the future, and help them to solve their problems. But since you didn't do the first step well, you need to remedy it. You can search the public account of "Outstanding Partners". They have published a hotline, and there are different groups. There are groups of comrades coming out, and there are also groups of parents. If your parents join, listening to other parents' advice should work. In addition, I suggest you order Rainbow by mail. The introduction and mail order method are as follows (omitted) Read it for your sister. If your parents can read, they can read it. The book is full of examples, which is very popular. Many people buy this book when they come out. "Outstanding Partners" published many stories about coming out, as well as a column for parents (I also have a column). You can browse for reference.
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