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The Code of Childhood Innocence: A psychologist's parenting notes

Is sucking your finger the beginning of your baby's self satisfaction? Hide and seek, can children practice controlling fear? The baby talks to himself. Is he learning to take care of himself It turns out that every "insignificant" or incomprehensible behavior of children has its important psychological significance. In this book, a psychologist father takes his and his wife's childcare experience as the blueprint, and makes an in-depth analysis of the inner world of children aged 0-3. Readers can learn the process of children's psychological growth in detail from this book, and how parents should lay a solid foundation for children's psychological building.



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About the author

   Hu Shenzhi : Engaged in psychological consultation for more than 10 years, with a total consultation time of 4000~5000 hours for individual successful cases, and has quite rich practical experience in consultation.
   Zeng Lu Douzi's mother, a child psychologist.

Media recommendation

Wu Zhihong, a famous psychologist and best-selling writer —— This book can be regarded as a model, a model for elaborately interpreting the relationship between parents and children before the age of 3 with the theory of object relations.

Hua Haiyan, International NLP Tutor and Parent child Expert —— This book is a perfect combination of sensibility and rationality, interest and professionalism, love and wisdom. It is a rare parenting treasure!

Foreword: How can a psychologist raise children

   Wu Zhihong, a famous psychologist and best-selling writer : At present, it is still a firm DINK doctrine, so this is impossible. Besides, it's hard to say what kind of father I will be if I really want a child. In this regard, my girlfriend's judgment is that I will be a bad father.
In fact, I am also curious about how a psychologist will raise children. This curiosity was fully satisfied in the book of Old Fox and Little Deer. After years of experience, he has become a sensitive, sensitive and mature therapist and is ready to become a good father. As for the deer, the first time I saw her, I thought she would be a good mother[ more ]

   Author's Preface As the old saying goes, three years old makes eighty. From the perspective of psychological development, this sentence is basically true.
The age of 0~3 is the most important stage of life, which is easily ignored by many people. A child with mental health, independent and stable personality will have a great future. According to my professional experience, the root cause of too many adults' mental illness lies in the problem of parents' care methods and parent-child interaction before the age of 3[ more ]

Part 1 Beans in swaddling clothes (the first month): psychologically autistic, unable to distinguish oneself from mother

Part 2 Beans in the arms (2-5 months): psychological symbiosis period, need a "good enough" mother

Part 3 Beans Playing Sitting (6-10 months): Psychological differentiation begins, knowing that mother is mother and baby is baby

Part 4 Beans crawling all over the ground (10-15 months): psychological differentiation is in progress, and self satisfaction learning begins

Part 5 Beans Running Everywhere (16 months to 2.5 years old): Psychological differentiation and contradiction period, fantasizing about their omnipotence

Part 6 Beans to be Independent (2 ½~3 years old): Psychological independence and self