No matter where they work, some people are always able to stand out and make achievements, while some people, no matter how many times they move, always walk upstream at the most basic level, with uneven hunger and satiety, and see no upward possibility.
How promising a person is and what he can do depend on many factors, such as his character, ability, resource background, family education, etc.
As you sow, you reap. If you never succeed, it must have a lot to do with yourself. Usually, you will have the following ten characteristics and manifestations.
01
The plan is full, but the execution is weak
Many people who have never made a breakthrough in their career have a very obvious feature, that is, they think about a thousand roads at night, but wake up in the morning and go the same way.
They have a very clear plan for life and a clear idea for doing something, but this is only limited to thinking in their heads, saying something, shouting a few slogans, and then going on living.
Without executive power, many people in the workplace have no improvement in their career because they have ideas in their minds but are slow to act.
There is no way out, nothing is not done, no matter how well planned, no matter how ideal, no execution, then nothing.
02
Aim high and aim low
Last year, my friend asked me to find a job for his cousin who just graduated from college. Because of the good relationship, I did my best to do this. According to his cousin's own wishes and requirements, I arranged to enter a company.
Surprisingly, his cousin resigned before the three-month probationary period, because he was too tired. It was common to leave work at 9 p.m. and often worked overtime on weekends.
Later, my friend asked me to help him again, and I introduced him to a job, but there was still a problem. After working for a short time, I left again. I felt that the company was small and had no future.
I told my friend that you should go back and communicate with your cousin about your work attitude. You can't just see the thieves eating meat and not seeing the thieves being beaten. Now you don't want to go back to the days when you had a big pot of rice. It doesn't matter how much you do. Now you focus on personal value.
It's a good thing for a person to be ambitious, but it's embarrassing that many people are ambitious, but they don't have a down-to-earth heart.
In fact, many people who do not make do with their lives begin with making do with their lives. They all start from the grass-roots level and grow up with hardships. If a person always "does not make a difference between high and low", he will eventually do nothing well.
03
Escape from reality and face negatively
Mr. Lu Xun said that true warriors dare to face the bleak life.
Roman Roland also said that there is only one kind of heroism in the world, that is, to still love life after recognizing its truth.
The truth of life is that life is always bitter, there are always many frustrations and disappointments, but the final results are different because of different attitudes and choices between people.
Many people like playing games, chasing dramas, and even playing cards. In essence, it is not how attractive these entertainment is to them, but to numb themselves and escape from reality.
But as a result, the more you avoid difficulties and problems, the less you will get over them, because these problems will not slip away by themselves. Only those who dare to face them and find ways to solve them will have a better life.
04
Self limiting, no confidence in oneself
Most people who are unpromising and fail all the time have one problem, that is, they don't have enough confidence in themselves and are used to setting limits. I can't do this, and I can't do that. This is a fatal point for people in the workplace.
In fact, many things are not as difficult as you think, and you are not as bad as you think, but you have not tried hard.
As big as a job, as small as a matter, don't always say I can't do it. If you say too much, you really can't.
Self confidence is very important. If you don't believe that you can do a good job, how can you do it well?
05
Three minute heat, don't know how to persist
The cousin I just cited as an example of a friend has such a problem. He is always enthusiastic about doing things for three minutes. Once his passion passes, or once he encounters problems, he will not persist.
If you can't stay anywhere, it's probably not the environment, but your own problem.
We all learned the story of kitty fishing when we were young. It is difficult to do something well if we are always half hearted.
When someone is in high spirits, he buys a bunch of books, applies for a training class, and plans to improve himself, but he fails to do anything in the end, because he is not persistent enough in doing things, which is also what is commonly called not self-discipline.
A thing should either not be done, but should be done from beginning to end, or not give up so early, so casual, or it is a waste of time, and ultimately nothing.
06
Pursue ease and muddle along
I don't like to preach about other people's lives. Everyone has the right to choose a lifestyle. But let's just talk about it from the facts. Many people have never made a breakthrough in their career and have been jumping at the grassroots level. There is a very subjective reason that they are greedy for comfort and muddle along.
Such people, their demands for work are limited to ease, few things, and being close to home. They are not unable to earn money, but unwilling to bear hardships. Their life credo is: life is short, and enjoy it as soon as possible.
Therefore, you can see that there are too many people who muddle through the company, like buying lottery tickets, and dream of becoming rich overnight.
It is not terrible to be poor, or to be in a low point of life. The most frightening thing is to have no fighting spirit, no fighting heart, and no desire to make progress. 1 point
07
Complain too much, don't find the reason from yourself
In the work, there is a kind of person who is particularly unpopular. That is, the person who likes to complain starts to complain about too much work when he receives a task and does not look at the workload. After working overtime, he complains about the inhumanity of the boss everywhere
In short, in their eyes, everything is unsatisfactory, there are always endless complaints, this is not good, that is not good.
A person who likes to complain always thinks that his bad life is due to social injustice, the problem of others rather than his own, so it is easy to lose enthusiasm for struggle, so complaining is the beginning of a person's loss of morale.
Complaining is not only the beginning of frustration, but also the source of hatred. When we get along with colleagues, leaders, family and friends, a person full of negative energy is particularly easy to be kept away from.
Therefore, a person who likes complaining will not make a breakthrough in his career, and it is difficult to gain happiness in life.
08
Angry but not funny
A lot of people who don't get along well have a bad habit of not seeing others well. If someone is better off than themselves and has achieved higher achievements than themselves, they feel that others are dependent on relationships and have a hostile attitude.
And for some people who are not as good as themselves, they have a sense of superiority, and try to find pleasure in these people.
It is difficult for such people to make progress, and they tend to get worse.
09
Be content with the status quo and refuse to learn
To put it realistically, many people have been working at the grass-roots level and always earn money by selling cheap labor because they are unwilling to learn and accept new things.
Many people refuse to learn and improve themselves on the grounds of their low educational background and old age. But in this era, if you don't learn and keep pace with the times, you will easily be eliminated.
If one does not learn, he will not have the ability to change his life, and will not have a mature vision. He can only stay in the immature circle and stay where he is.
Learning is a lifelong thing. Only when you are curious about new things and keep learning can you remain invincible.
ten
Irregularity and procrastination
Procrastination, procrastination addiction and lack of self-discipline are the main reasons for many failures.
Because of this, their work efficiency will be greatly reduced, and they will have no time and energy to do additional work, and eventually lose initiative and initiative.
2018 is coming to an end, 2019 will be a new start, life can be changed, and it is not too late to change at any time!
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