In exploring the art of nesting, it is important to note that not only gorgeous residences and heavy wealth can create a warm home. What is more important for families is that their parents are kind and their children are filial, and their husband and wife live together in harmony and happiness.
The end of a family often depends on the mind and vision of parents.
When misfortune comes, it is often not a natural disaster, but a man-made loss.
If you are still in the following three dilemmas at the age of 50, I am afraid that your old age will be bleak and your children will be discouraged.
1、 Half of the people are still involved in divorce, and the family is like a place where chickens fly and dogs leap.
As stated in "The Growing Apple Tree Forever", "husband and wife are the core of the family, and only their permanence and stability can endow the family with happiness and life." We are all willing to hold hands with our partners, share the ups and downs of life, and jointly resist the storms of time. May we still have each other's protection and companionship in our twilight years. However, if the daily quarrel is exhausted, the children will leave a shadow in their hearts that cannot be erased, and they will also have a distorted view of marriage. The road to divorce often brings three bad consequences: one is that the husband and wife are afraid of each other, or have violence or cheating, causing family unrest; Second, children are displaced and families are broken; Three later years after divorce, they are afraid of dying well, which makes their children feel worried and guilty.
When children return home, what a bleak place it would be if they were faced with a home without the warmth of their parents.
2、 From to half a century ago, there was no plan for pension funds and lack of foresight.
Life is not afraid of poverty. When you are young, you will be motivated. When you are middle-aged, you will work hard. In later years, you will get better. Many couples start from scratch, and eventually achieve success in their children's education. However, poverty in old age is the most terrible. Lost the ability to make a living, but the cost is increasing. At this time, the pension became the guarantee of the quality of life. Smart people, middle-aged people have begun to plan for their later life, prepare retirement homes, insurance, save a little, and keep healthy. In this way, they can take care of themselves in their later years, and their children can also make a great effort in society.
3、 Half a hundred people are very particular about their children and have a strong desire for control.
In reality, some people depend on their elders early, ask their children to support them, or use high price betrothal gifts to ensure their later life. However, the 60s are still called young old people, and they should still be promising, helping their children raise their grandchildren. If it becomes a burden for children, it will hurt family harmony. What's more, it is outrageous to ask rich children for money and turn to support children who do not do their jobs.
Therefore, no matter how old we are, we should cultivate our morality and self-discipline, think carefully, and raise children well. Only in this way can we avoid misfortunes and gain benefits, and our family is harmonious and happy.
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