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Sorry, I have to delete your wechat

Dazzle Yi Five years ago (2017-02-17) two thousand and eighteen zero

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    "   Clean up wechat friends regularly to see who has hacked and deleted my wechat  " 。
  You must have received such information.

  On weekdays, we should all have received messages like this to clean up wechat friends. Send a message in groups to see if the other party is still your friend. Sometimes I feel that this kind of group sending is very boring, and sometimes I feel it is very necessary to send it once to know whether it is meaningful to keep the other party, and to know whether the person who has not seen the update of the circle of friends has deleted you.

  However, when we do this wechat friend test, we all ignore a problem, that is, the people we send to do not include parents, family members, close friends and colleagues who often contact us. We are very sure that our friends and closest family members who often chat will not delete us. What we really want to detect is precisely those who have no intersection, or even just because they have met each other easily and have wechat.

  So we try to find out whether the other party has deleted us because they haven't been in touch for a long time. If they are deleted, they will delete them. If they don't, they will continue to stay in wechat. If they are not warm, they will not say a few words.  

  

  One day, when you want to make a vote or friends praise the lottery, you will start to send messages one by one. I hope these wechat friends can help you. But when it is suddenly sent to someone, your message is rejected and the page shows   "   You are no longer a friend of the other party  "  When you think about it, you think about it and feel that there is no cross-section between you. All of a sudden, your friend has been deleted. You feel puzzled and angry.

  But you probably forget that you also need to find him to like him before you think of this person. If it is not such an opportunity, you have not found that he has retired in your circle of friends, usually you can not remember the existence of this person. So you also did not suffer losses, although the other party does not care about your existence, and even rudely deleted friends, but for you, he has no status, delete it.  
  It seems that last year, when the circle of friends suddenly became very popular, showing the screenshots of their wechat address book, pulling the address book to the bottom, and sending the intercepted number to the circle of friends. Some people have 800 or 900 friends, while others tend to be thousands, so the comments are filled with sighs. It seems that this person is very strong and knows so many friends. It seems that the number of friends on wechat has become the standard to measure how popular a person is. But no matter how long the list is, there are only a few people you want to chat with when you are bored, and there are only a few who can really help you when you are in trouble. Most of the others are watching your life coldly.

  It's easy to add a friend. It's easy to have a meal, go to a friend's party, a company event, or just meet one another. Leaving a wechat seems to have become a social necessity. We always add it conveniently, but we seldom get in touch with each other. We may have met these people only once, some people do not necessarily know his name, in the circle of friends, you look at the life of this person who has nothing to do with you.

  Because you are unfamiliar, you don't want him to see your circle of friends, but you don't think it's appropriate to block or delete them. In this case, why didn't you consider it good to add friends and politely refused to add wechat.  
    I don't have many wechat friends up to now, so I didn't send anything and didn't like others when others reported the number of my friends. I've always wanted to be a person with rich heart. I don't want other people's attention and recognition. I believe that only when I have a close friend is worth my time to manage this friendship. So I don't care how many people praise me, how many people lie in my wechat, what I care about is how many   "   True friend  " 。

  After we grow up, we continue to add to our lives. With higher education, more and more incomes, and more and more friends, it seems that only in this way can we be regarded as growing up, and we can have harvest. However, another sign of growth is that you can make choices, and you know how to refuse what you don't need, instead of making a full income. You should properly eliminate this meaningless encounter, so that each other has more time and energy to love those who really matter.

  May you, no longer deliberately pursue the number of wechat friends, I wish you to accept when you are deleted by others, and wish our circle of friends can   "   Small  "  A little bit, may we all have more  "  really  "  friend.  


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