"It's raining in your city, and I want to ask you if you have an umbrella. But I can't help it, because I'm afraid you said you didn't have one, and I can't do anything about it, just like I love you, but I can't give you the company you want."
---Hayao Miyazaki
The little sister in the screenshot of the circle of friends is a colleague of a company when I first came to Shanghai. I always remember a very positive, optimistic, gentle and refined Nanjing girl. It can also be seen from the various activities of the circle of friends,
I suddenly saw this monologue, and I still felt deeply. I saw this sentence on Zhihu before, but I forgot the original sentence. The main idea is
In fact, the biggest problem of long-distance love is not space distance, but spiritual distance; The biggest problem of long-distance love is not to quarrel, not to embrace, but to love each other deeply, but to say nothing.
In light of the background of the current era, it seems really difficult to maintain a long-distance relationship,
People say that long-distance love should trust and compromise with each other. We all know the truth, but both sides have different views on things,
On the contrary, blindly compromise will become a bigger contradiction, and a small problem may also escalate into a big problem,
To put it bluntly, we still need to communicate more. Communication is an extremely important thing. Both sides should learn to share with each other. Although we cannot meet often, the key is actually to participate in each other's life.
Of course, from my personal point of view, there are only two points:
Communicate more effectively and try not to convey negative emotions to the other party; Meet more!
It is better to stay in a city. It is said that only experience can bring memories, and only memories can bring topics. Otherwise, what topics can be discussed online every day.
To add something else, due to multiple factors, recently I have been thinking about whether to go back to Zhengzhou or my hometown, and try to change my job and mood. After all, I can't afford to buy a house in Shanghai, and it is far from home. Even my parents often miss me when I am so grown up.
I envy the carefree childhood. The world of adults is nothing more than trying to smile, obviously caring, and pretending to be carefree and heartless
Alas, it's almost early in the morning. After listening to Brother Song's song, it's time to go to bed
Good night, migrant worker~
