The skinny boy in the picture is Xu Jiaming, and his hometown is Shanxia Village, Longxi Town, Linchuan District, Fuzhou, Jiangxi Province. Since the transplantation out of the warehouse, all the bad conditions have gone through once. Intestinal rejection, skin rejection, cytomegalovirus, B19 virus, adenovirus, liver and kidney dysfunction, cystitis. The patient said that he was attacked by "100 poisons". At the age of 7, he has been bitten by the pain to less than 30 kg. It has been nearly half a year since I went north to cure a disease. My biggest wish now is to go back to my hometown and spend the Mid Autumn Festival with my grandma. He grew up with his grandma as a left behind child. He misses his grandma so much that he doesn't like hospitals. (You can go to Tencent Donation to learn and help: [seeing off my father and encountering serious illness])
In January 2013, my mother was pregnant with Jiaming, which was an unexpected pregnancy eight years after giving birth to my brother. This news did not give Xu Yong and his wife a special surprise, but more was the "want or not" entanglement. The husband and wife are just ordinary migrant workers. They are not well off. They have both children and never plan to have three children. The couple hesitated, but the old man in the family was sincere and sincere, and refused to "kill". It was a living life. In October 2013, Xu Yong's third child, Xu Jiaming, came to the world.
In order to support a family of seven, when Jiaming was just one year old, Xu Yong and his wife handed him and his brothers and sisters over to their elderly grandparents. The couple followed their fellow villagers to Shenyang in Northeast China to work. In order to save travel expenses, we only go home during the Spring Festival all the year round. Wandering in a foreign country is hard and bitter, but thinking about the elderly and children at home, even the husband and wife feel worthwhile even if they are tired again and again. Ordinary migrant workers dare not have too many extravagant hopes. They only hope that the elderly can be healthy and the children can grow up quickly. However, this simple hope can hardly be realized.
After the Spring Festival in 2018, Xu Yong and his wife had just returned to Shenyang to prepare for returning to work, when they received a call from their mother crying. Father was diagnosed with cirrhosis and needed hospitalization. The couple had to return to their hometown. In the next year, Xu Yong and his wife went out to work in turn, but they could not resist the high cost of his father's hospitalization. In March 2019, the situation of the elderly worsened and they still left the ICU after more than half a month. In order to save Grandpa Jiaming, the couple spent all the savings they had saved between their teeth and owed a lot of foreign debts. But the family has not yet come out of their grief, and a disaster has come again.
After taking care of his father's affairs, Xu Yong and his wife continued to work in Shenyang with 6-year-old Jiaming, who was going to go to primary school with them. Shortly after arriving in Shenyang, Xiaojiaming often had a fever. The couple thought it was just a common cold and took it to the outpatient clinic for injection and medicine. But for more than half a month, the situation has not improved. When I came to Shenyang Shengjing Hospital for examination, the white blood cells were as high as 700. The doctor highly suspected that it was leukemia. After knowing their economic situation, I hurried back to Jiangxi for treatment. The three members of the family immediately got on the train back to their hometown in fear. On the way, the couple prayed and imagined that the doctor's judgment was wrong. (You can go to Tencent Donation to learn and help: [seeing off my father and encountering serious illness])
"It was very hot that day, but my whole portrait fell into the ice cellar!" On July 28, 2019, Xu Yong and his wife were deeply impressed. Xiao Jiaming was diagnosed with acute myeloid leukemia m4 in Nanchang Ertong Hospital. As expected, the doctor's suspicion was confirmed, and the couple's last fluke was shattered, full of fear, pain and guilt. His son has suffered many disasters since he was young. Before he was 1 year old, he fell ill twice a day. At the age of 2, he could not speak. However, the couple could not accompany his son because of their busy life. Therefore, Jiaming was relatively introverted. When he first came to his side, he suffered from such a serious illness. Thinking of their son's pity, the couple decided to smash the pot and sell iron to cure his disease.
After the beginning of chemotherapy, various side effects followed, including hair loss, ulcer, fever, stomachache, vomiting, etc. But Xiaojiaming didn't cry or make a fuss, because the doctor said that he could get better as soon as he cooperated with the patient. Innocent, he believed the doctor's white lie. Every time he pricked a needle and drew blood, he took the initiative to extend his small hand. Even the painful bone puncture, he bit his lip and tried not to cry. Seeing that his son is so strong and sensible, Xu Yong's determination to treat him is extremely firm, but he did not expect to spend 100000 yuan on the first course of treatment. He dare not think how difficult the road behind will be?
In February 2020, after six courses of chemotherapy, the doctor said that bone marrow transplantation must be done after bone penetration assessment. Money is the biggest problem. Six courses of treatment cost nearly 500000 yuan. Grandpa Jiaming's old debt for medical treatment has not been paid off, and they can't afford another 500000 yuan for transplantation. But not transplanting the 500000 yuan that has already been spent not only has been wasted, but also means leaving the child to die. "Sell the house, it's important to save the baby!" Grandma Jiaming made a decision, and the family moved into an abandoned house with air leaks everywhere. In order to earn money, the old man took his granddaughters and grandchildren to pick lotus seedpods for growers all summer vacation, and they could earn 80 yuan a day. But the money of three grandparents working in a summer vacation was not enough for Jiaming to have an antibiotic.
Since Jiangxi Children's Hospital could not do transplantation, from February to early April, a family of three moved to Shenyang, Guangdong, and Shanghai. However, during the epidemic, several hospitals did not dare to accept patients receiving chemotherapy in other hospitals. But the child's condition could not be delayed. When Xu Yong and his wife were sad and desperate, the family went to Hebei Ludaopai Hospital on April 7 after being recommended by their friends. To their delight, the hospital accepted Jiaming. Jiaming's elder sister and elder brother both made a match. When they knew that their match matched their younger brother, the two children scrambled to save him. Xu Yong and his wife were both pleased and sad.
"I want to transplant my children myself. The children are growing up to be afraid of hurting them. But my liver is bad, and it hurts when I do heavy work. Finally, I returned the bone marrow provided by my brother. I really hate myself for being useless. I can't earn big money and I don't have a good physique, so the children suffer with me..." Xu Yong holds his head high and tries not to cry. On May 25, Jiaming borrowed and sold the house to raise a deposit of 250000 yuan. Jiaming finally entered the warehouse. The transplant was successful. On June 15, Jiaming successfully left the warehouse, making a big step towards rebirth.
However, before they could be happy, the fierce rejection once again gripped Xu Yong and his wife's heart. Just seven days after leaving the warehouse, Jiaming had a fever, followed by skin rejection, intestinal rejection, cystitis, adenovirus, cytomegalovirus, B19 virus... Various viruses took advantage of the situation. Jiaming was fasted and could not eat or drink. Instead, he had diarrhea more than ten times a day, followed by bloody stool. The disease devoured Jiaming's weak body. In just one month, Jiaming lost 10 kg, his legs were like hemp stalks, and his whole body was skin and bone. Seeing his son being tortured, Xu Yong felt like a knife in his heart.
"I thought that borrowing money for transplantation would help my children recover quickly. But I didn't expect that children's rejection would be so heavy and the money would be more expensive. Now I really understand what transplantation is valuable and rejection is priceless! Every day I open my eyes and think about how to borrow money to maintain treatment. Sometimes it's better for adults to be hungry than to stop the children's medicine. Alas, that pain..." Xu Yong sighs helplessly. He sometimes thinks that if he had done an abortion with his heart, the child would not suffer like this today, but if he had no chance, he could only face the fate of the arrangement, and the high cost of treatment made him worried.
Jiaming's rejection was initially controlled. On September 25, Jiaming was finally discharged from the hospital. This was the first time Jiaming left the hospital after more than five months in hospital. People of all sizes jumped out of the hospital door happily, saying that they would go back to their hometown and eat moon cakes with their grandmother during the Mid Autumn Festival. Jiaming's wish is not big, but his parents can't meet it. Jiaming is as weak as a newborn baby. He has to be ready for further consultation at any time.
Jiaming has spent as much as 870000 yuan since he entered the warehouse. Xu Yong and his wife are in debt of nearly 400000 yuan, while Jiaming's follow-up treatment is still at least 300000 yuan. As an ordinary rural migrant family, they really have no way, but the dawn is ahead. Through the immediate difficulties, Jiaming can realize his wish of returning home to accompany his grandmother. If you want to help the poor boy and the family, please click [Send off my father and have a serious illness], or open WeChat payment - Tencent Public Welfare - search for "Send off my father and have a serious illness", thank you for your love.
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