One and a half year old boy had three consecutive operations, leaving a ring scar on his belly, and his mother blamed herself for giving birth to him

"Yangyang is only over one year old, and has had three operations, and has suffered a lot. Every time I bathe and change clothes for him, as long as I see the scar on his stomach, I can't help blaming myself. I knew I had brought him into the world and made him suffer so much. I would rather not give birth to him at that time, and let him not choose us as his parents." Recently, In the ward of Baoding Children's Hospital in Hebei Province, Wang Xiaolu, 24, could not hide her sadness when talking about her son. The picture shows Wang Xiaolu's husband Li Wei accompanying her son in the hospital.

Wang Xiaolu and Li Wei are from Liujiabao, Huai'an County, Hebei Province. After 1995, they were hardworking and ran a small barber shop in the town. The two are classmates' lovers. After marriage, the couple have a very good relationship. Although the business of the small shop is ordinary and they still owe the foreign debt they borrowed when they opened the shop, they believe that as long as they work hard, their life will be better and better. The picture shows the wedding photo taken by Wang Xiaolu and Li Wei when they got married.

On January 12, 2019, Wang Xiaolu and Li Wei's son Li Boyang were born in the expectation of the whole family. In order to take good care of her son, Xiaolu stays at home to take care of the baby. Li Wei works alone in the barber shop. They are looking forward to paying off the foreign debt early and living a happy life. Unexpectedly, when he was half a year old, Xiao Boyang was diagnosed with something growing in his stomach after several treatments in the local hospital because of flatulence, rash and fever. "Go to the big hospital in Beijing for treatment!" The doctor's words made the young couple collapse. The picture shows Xiaoboyang in a hundred days.

Wang Xiaolu and Li Wei went straight from the hospital to Beijing without even returning home with Xiao Boyang. In Beijing Children's Hospital, Xiao Boyang was diagnosed with nephroblastoma. Because the hospital bed was tight, and the child's condition did not dare to wait, Wang Xiaolu had to take Boyang back to Baoding for chemotherapy. "The child continued to have a fever, and we didn't dare to leave the hospital for fear that we might not see him again." Wang Xiaolu said that when Boyang was undergoing chemotherapy, he had to have needles inserted every day. He couldn't find blood vessels on his fat arm, and he had to have them inserted several times each time. Wang Xiaolu felt that his heart was breaking. The picture shows Wang Xiaolu accompanying Xiao Boyang for chemotherapy.

The effect of chemotherapy is not obvious. The tumor in Boyang's body is still growing day by day, making his stomach bigger than the skin ball. On October 9, 2019, nine month old Xiao Boyang received his first operation. After the operation for more than 5 hours, Xiao Boyang was sent directly to the intensive care unit without even seeing his parents because of the bad condition after the operation. The doctor said to Wang Xiaolu, "It depends on the nature of the child. If you can carry it, you will be lost." At that moment, Wang Xiaolu hated herself very much. Why did she suffer when she gave birth to her child? Children haven't had time to experience the fun of childhood yet! The picture shows Xiao Boyang after operation.

Six days later, the strong little Boyang finally returned to the ordinary ward. The cost of the intensive care unit is more than 10000 yuan per day, and the cost of the ordinary ward is not low. They have survived for nearly three months without savings. "Later, the child's pathology report showed that Boyang had a rare malignant rhabdoid tumor of the kidney. We heard that this disease is not easy to treat, but both my father and I made up our minds to save the child even if there was only 1% hope." Wang Xiaolu said. The picture shows his father Li Wei holding Xiao Boyang who is undergoing infusion.

Wang Xiaolu said that she thought that chemotherapy could control the child's condition, but she didn't expect that the fifth course of chemotherapy would be reached. When the child had difficulty in urination and defecation, she found that the disease had recurred, "I really can't help it. In March this year, the child entered the operating room again. But God seems to be joking. More than two months after the second operation, the child relapsed again and had to have a third operation. " The picture shows Xiao Boyang lying on his bed for treatment after the first operation.

At present, Xiao Boyang has gone through three major operations, one minor operation, 17 radiotherapy and 16 chemotherapy, and spent 350000 yuan. "Many people advised us to give up, saying that as parents, we had tried our best, but we could not bear to look at the innocent face of the child. Later, the child will continue to receive radiotherapy and chemotherapy. One radiotherapy costs 3000 yuan, and a course of chemotherapy costs 20000 yuan. We really don't know what to do." (Photo: Fang Xia, editor: Liu Baocheng/Dahe local)

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