Talk to your father to be. Have you figured out who will take care of your baby?

Both the puerpera and the newborn baby need to be taken good care of during the postpartum period. It is best to plan early. If you need to ask the sister-in-law, you should also start related matters as soon as possible. Go to the housekeeping center early, or find friends who are familiar with each other to introduce each other. Especially when it comes to the birth peak, the sister-in-law is very popular. If you need the care of the elderly or other relatives, you should also make plans in advance and consider some details of life, such as how to live and what work to do in advance. 1. If you can find a wife to help you after delivery, you will save a lot of trouble. Because the sister-in-law can help take care of the mother, make delicious monthly meals for the mother, and also take care of the newborn baby. In this way, we can leave a lot of rest time for the new mother to recover better. She will also give you some advice on postpartum recovery, and her experience is relatively rich. She can also give you some good experience in bringing new babies. The old people in the family will not be very busy with the sister-in-law. After all, the old people are old and too tired is bad for their health. Of course, the premise is that you must find a satisfactory and suitable wife. Because the domestic market is chaotic and the quality of the sister-in-law is uneven, we must go to the formal domestic center. It is better to consult with the new mother who has given birth soon in advance to ask if there is a sister in law who feels very good. Such an introduction will be more reliable. But at the same time, you should also be mentally prepared. The sister-in-law you find will certainly not satisfy you 100%, and there are also occasions when you can't make a temporary replacement within a month. In addition, you can't leave everything to your wife because some of her ideas are outdated. Especially for raising babies, expectant mothers should reserve more parenting knowledge and compare with her experience. 2. Of course, it will be more reassuring to have the elderly at home to take care of the baby in some aspects. After all, they are relatives, and they will know more about their own situation and be more dedicated. In addition, it is one of the best ways to have your mother-in-law wait on your child. After all, it is your own mother. When encountering conflicts in life or childcare, you can communicate better, and even if you quarrel, you will not leave a bad feeling in your heart. You know, new mothers after childbirth are easily upset, and it is common to make troubles. If you change to a mother-in-law, you will spend a long time together every day. A lot of complicated things will inevitably lead to friction. But if a new mother is not easy to say, she is likely to be depressed in her heart. If she is upset and quarrels, there will also be estrangement. So if the elderly are invited to help, one is to consider their physical condition, and the other is to pay attention to mutual understanding. After all, old people work hard. Don't be too harsh on them. 3. Some new mothers will choose to order the monthly meal, which can meet their daily dietary needs. Moreover, the customized monthly meal is very helpful for postpartum recovery and lactation. The most important thing is that with the monthly meal, people who take care of the baby will be able to reduce most of their work and not have to worry about what to do for several meals a day, so that they can pay more attention to taking care of the new mother and baby. Of course, the price of the monthly meal is not cheap, so you should make a choice based on your own actual situation. 4. The equipment and nursing conditions of the Yuezi Club are the best. The puerpera don't need to worry about anything at all. They can leave everything to the people in the Yuezi Center. However, the price of the monthly club is expensive, which is not affordable for ordinary families. In addition, in many months, the baby will be given full care by the nurse. The new mother is more likely to rest and do post natal rehabilitation training, so there is less communication between parents and children. Moreover, after returning home from the birth center, they may not be familiar with how to take care of the baby and can not fully adapt to the role of the new mother.