After marriage, the life of husband and wife is not static, and they should actively make corresponding adjustments according to different age groups. So what kind of marriage life should people of different ages lead? Foreign experts gave some guidance.

In his twenties, he faced the conflict directly. Before marriage, the couple may talk about where to live, when to have children and how to arrange expenses in a broad way, and try to avoid putting forward life goals that the other half may disagree with. However, once entering into marriage, the contradiction and disunity between husband and wife will begin to emerge. At this time, we can't avoid talking and turning a blind eye. The problem will not be automatically corrected, and we need to discuss and deal with it together to get back on track. When couples start to solve problems, everyone should speak his or her mind honestly.

In his thirties, he focused on enjoying sex. Generally speaking, after the age of 30, women will know what they really need in bed, so they should take the initiative to increase intimacy. Orlando suggested: "Women can kiss their husbands passionately, create passionate sex, and express love to each other more." They should also find time to arrange sex from their busy schedule, which is very worthwhile.

In his forties, he is united and cooperative. Peb Schwartz, a sociology professor at Washington University in the United States, pointed out that having a child in adolescence would make many couples' relationships difficult. The best coping strategy is to work together to deal with children's problems. She suggested that when making important decisions about child rearing, we should first discuss with the other half.

In his fifties, he established a new normal. Couples of this age group are more difficult to communicate because they are increasingly unwilling to listen to each other. Learning to listen with understanding and without criticism may help couples regain consensus. The past passion may gradually fade away. Couples should find new ways to get along and improve their connection, such as learning some lessons together or attending old classmates' gatherings together.

In his sixties and seventies, he regained intimacy. Staying together with nothing every day is not the best living condition for many couples. It can mobilize the body and mind, actively participate in various activities, and communicate with each other after a busy day at home, which is very valuable for old husbands and wives.

In addition, after decades of marriage, many couples stop romantic behavior, but should not be used to it. Keep close at any age. If these romantic behaviors have disappeared for a long time, let them return to marriage. (Compiled by Xin Yue)