Middle aged couples who gave birth to twins as surrogates refused to support them when they found that they were not born

 Two month old twin brother yawns. Two month old twin brother yawns.
 No one knows who the parents of the twin boys are. No one knows who the parents of the twin boys are.

   The wrong transfer results in the surrogate embryo that is not the client

   The client abandons the surrogate agency to find the biological parents of the child

Two months ago, a pair of twin boys conceived by "borrowed belly" were born in a hospital in Guangzhou. The process of surrogacy was even suspected of being illegal, and it took more than three years, but it always had results. The middle-aged "parents" were happy to have twin sons, but they were not happy for a few days. Later, DNA paternity tests showed that there was no blood relationship at all. The "parents" refused to continue to support the non biological twins who had been identified twice. They left the non biological twins in the surrogate agency. Now the twins are taken care of by the boss of the surrogacy company. The agent's proprietress was also very helpless, and she did not know which link had gone wrong. During this period, she had spent tens of thousands of yuan to hire a nanny to take care of and advance medical expenses, and she was unable to support herself in the long run. "Although the opportunity is very slim, I still want to try to open this matter to the public to see if I can find the child's biological parents".

   "Oolong" strange things:

   Surrogate twins are not the clients' own surrogate agents who report for help

Recently, our newspaper received a report from a woman who claimed to be an insider of the surrogacy industry. She exposed the chaos of the surrogacy industry to the reporter, and also told about a strange "black dragon" incident in the industry recently. A middle-aged couple was eager to have a baby, and found a surrogate mother ("surrogate mother" for short) through an intermediary to give birth to a pair of lovely twin boys. Unexpectedly, the "parents" entrusted with surrogacy found that the twin boys were not their own flesh and blood during DNA paternity test, so they abandoned the boy babies in the surrogacy agency.

At present, surrogacy is still a gray area in China, and there are many disputes. In recent years, health, family planning, food and drug administration and other departments have jointly carried out special actions to crack down on surrogacy. The reporter continued to communicate with the informant, and further learned that the informant came from Hebei and called herself Li. In fact, she was the owner of the surrogate agency who had "strange things". The twins returned by the customer were now taken care of by her. Recently, she has been overwhelmed by this matter. "It's not a matter for us to take care of all the time. I'm not afraid of revealing my identity, but I just hope to help the child find his or her own parents.".

   sequence of events:

   The process of surrogacy has twists and turns

   In the end, it was an own dragon

After the telephone communication with the reporter, Ms. Li finally agreed to accept a face-to-face interview with the reporter. After many negotiations, Ms. Li's consent was sought and she went to the agreed place to see the baby boy in the Wulong incident. In addition, the reporter interviewed other insiders and learned the ins and outs of the matter.

Ms. Li said that it had been more than three years since she contacted this customer. The other party came to her house to learn about surrogacy operations and costs, and said she wanted a son. Upon inspection, the sperm and eggs of the client and his wife were normal and qualified for surrogacy, so he paid the early fees for surrogacy according to the industry rules. It is understood that the above customer is a middle-aged couple, over 40 years old, from Henan, who especially wants a son. Due to their own difficulties in childbirth, they took the risk to choose surrogacy. After paying more than 40000 yuan in initial expenses, the couple successfully cultivated embryos in Huax Hospital in Shatai Road, Guangzhou. According to Ms. Li's calculation, the customer went to the hospital from June 27 to 28, 2012.

Surrogation is a gray area suspected of violating the regulations. It is impossible for formal large hospitals to operate. Some bold doctors will rent laboratories in small private hospitals, cooperate with surrogacy agents, and jointly carry out lucrative surrogacy business. "Huax Hospital has such a laboratory that can perform surrogacy surgery. The clinician is' Director Ning ', and the person in charge of embryo freezing is' Xu × Yang'," Ms. Li said.

If there is no accident, the surrogacy process can be completed in more than one year. However, the customer spent more than 3 years and finally got an own goal. It is understood that Director Ning and Xu × Yang split up when the client successfully frozen the embryo and was looking for a surrogate mother. Xu × Yang took the frozen embryos he controlled and transferred them to Renkang Hospital in Huizhou. Due to immature technology, many operations carried out in the laboratory of Renkang Hospital failed to make some surrogates pregnant. After Ms. Li learned about this situation from her peers, she told the customer, and the customer suspended the surrogacy process.

At the end of last year, Ms. Li heard that Xu × Yang's laboratory had changed doctors, and there had been successful cases. She contacted Xu × Yang again to restart the previously suspended single surrogacy business. Ms. Li quickly helped the customer find a suitable surrogate mother, and went to Huizhou on December 22, 2014 for a transplant operation in Renkang Hospital. The surrogate mother was successfully pregnant and was a twin.

On August 13, 2015, the surrogate mother gave birth to healthy twin boys in a hospital in Guangzhou. The customer was very happy. After leaving the hospital, the customer went to the hospital to have a DNA paternity test for the twins according to the normal process of the surrogacy industry. As soon as the appraisal result is released, both the client and the surrogate agency are dumbfounded. The baby boy has no blood relationship with the couple who commissioned the surrogate. The surrogate agency took the client to the big hospital for another paternity test, and the conclusion was the same. The newborn twin boys were abandoned in a surrogate agency.

   Full of questions:

   Which link is wrong? Trace it back to the headless case again and again

Ms. Li said that she had never thought that such an oolong incident would happen to her after six years as a surrogate agent, and she had never heard of similar cases from her peers before. There are three main steps in surrogacy: in vitro embryo synthesis, cryopreservation of embryos, and the final embryo transfer pregnancy. What link is wrong? The results of the two parent-child identification showed that the reason of the boy baby and the client's husband and wife were not the same. It can be concluded that the embryo transferred into the surrogate mother's belly was wrong. According to the insiders, although surrogacy operations are performed in underground laboratories, the basic medical conditions are still available. Test tube label registration will certainly be available, and generally there will be no similar major omissions.

Ms. Li said that when she was transferring embryos in Huizhou Renkang Hospital, she did not arrive at the scene in her hometown of Hebei. Instead, she entrusted an acquaintance to supervise the scene by telephone, told Xu × Yang not to make mistakes, and asked an experienced chief doctor surnamed Long to perform the operation.

Although the operation was successful, it was a big black dragon. Ms. Li went around for more than a month to check with the relevant personnel in all links, but still did not know how the embryo was mistaken. Because the interests of all parties are involved, neither party is willing to admit mistakes. Dai Ma said that she had checked the embryo registration information many times before the transfer, and confirmed that it was consistent with the name "Li Li" previously registered by freezing, so it was impossible to get the wrong embryo during the transfer process.

Ms. Li analyzed that after the initial freezing of embryos, Xu × Yang and "Director Ning" split up. Later, the frozen embryos were transferred to Huizhou by Xu × Yang, which was likely to cause confusion and errors in the process of transportation. Now, Xu and Ning are both evading each other, saying that only one customer named "Li Li" was registered at that time, so there is no confusion in the registration.

   Intermediaries cry for poverty:

   I really can't take care of them. I hope to find the biological parents of twins

Because of the big black dragon, Ms. Li has refunded the customer's advance payment of tens of thousands of yuan in full, and has to advance the salary of the twin surrogate mother, hire a nanny and pay for daily feeding. Ms. Li said that 500000 yuan had been spent before and after.

She made a calculation and found a baby sitter for each of the twins. They would drink milk and use "diapers". It would cost more than 10000 yuan per month to take care of only one baby boy. "I can't take care of it like this for a long time. I can't afford it financially. It's under a lot of pressure."

"Do you know that the surrogacy industry is suspected of breaking the law, which may be bad for you after it is made public?" In the face of a reporter's question, Ms. Li admitted that she has been engaged in the surrogacy industry for many years, often paid attention to the relevant issues, and fully understood the legal risks of the surrogacy industry. If we were not at the end of our tether, we would never risk revealing our identity. She only hopes to help the twin boys find their biological parents. "I know the hope is very slim, but I still want to try my best. Even if I can't find the child's biological parents at the moment, I can leave a story through the report to leave a guide for the mother and son to meet in the future," Ms. Li said.

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