Some people say that adolescence is the age of rebellion. Indeed, most children in adolescence have a rebellious mentality. They are rebellious, arrogant and rebellious. If adults are right, he will not listen to them, and he must do the opposite. Adolescent psychology is complex and full of contradictions. What are the main manifestations of adolescent rebellious psychology?
1、 It is a negative reflection on positive publicity. A considerable number of teenagers' propaganda about schools, leaders and teachers shows a reverse thinking of disapproval and distrust. They tend to deny all positive propaganda in a partial and comprehensive way with some individual unfair facts in society. Similarly, there are also some teenagers who cannot grasp the reality from a certain height from the overall perspective, unilaterally exaggerate some imperfections of the socialist system and some advantages of the capitalist system, and sometimes even carry out negative propaganda intentionally or unintentionally.
2、 It is an unwarranted negation of models and advanced figures. In the process of education, many educators and parents hope to educate and infect young people through the moving deeds of advanced figures, arouse their enthusiasm, and achieve the purpose of encouraging backward progress. But the result is often counterproductive. Some advanced figures are said to be "speculators" or "fools" who are fishing for fame. They have no reason to doubt their motives, and then deny their advanced deeds. For the role models around them, they are labeled as "flattering" to repel and ridicule.
3、 It is emotional recognition of bad tendencies. In some teenagers, fighting is regarded as courageous; Open confrontation with teachers and leaders is regarded as capable; Bad behavior tendencies such as fraternity have won the approval of many people. However, teenagers who are willing to help others, care for the collective, care for public property, and abide by school rules and disciplines are ridiculed and ridiculed wantonly, resulting in a situation in which no one praises good people and good deeds in the collective atmosphere, where there is a market for bad tendencies, and good things are not suppressed.
4、 It is a passive resistance to the requirements of ideological education and discipline compliance. Teenagers who have rebellious psychology are very indifferent to the ideological and political education. They think that the ideological and political education is large, empty and formal, and does not conform to the real life of teenagers. Therefore, we should adopt the attitude of coping, resisting and passive confrontation towards ideological and political education.
In adolescence, children are at the age of ignorance. Their psychology is also the most complex and sensitive period. They need the guidance of parents and teachers and the care of others. We should not make a fuss about some of the above manifestations of rebellious psychology. As elders, we should understand them, be good at persuading them, and not just blame them, so as not to let rebellious psychology affect children's mental health.
