When people reach puberty, with the growth of age, they have more self-awareness and self requirements. Their independence and rebelliousness are growing day by day. Their relationship with their parents is tense. They begin to disobey their teachers in school. When they get along with friends, there will be contradictions and conflicts. These contradictions and conflicts are the most common types of psychological problems in adolescence, At the same time, they are also threats to the stable development of adolescent mental health.
1. Lockout
The closed psychology under the control of negative emotions makes such teenagers lack opportunities to communicate with the outside world, and complex inner activities remain in their hearts. The initiative enthusiasm of others becomes their own psychological obstacles. It can be said that closed psychology is a common and special psychological problem in adolescence.
2. Emotions
Teenagers are unstable and emotional. When encountering some strongly stimulating problems, they are often moody, picky, restless, and easy to lose control; It is prone to weak will, poor ability to bear setbacks, loss of courage to move forward, and loss of confidence in the future.
3. Heterosexuality
Adolescent boys and girls have begun to be interested in novelty, and they are attracted to it. They hope to have sex with the opposite sex, but they lack understanding and are shy when they are with the opposite sex, which not only disperses students' time and time, but also is one of the inducing factors of various campus violence events.
The above three points are the culprits that affect the stable development of adolescent mental health. Once we realize this, we can apply the right medicine to the case. When we treat adolescents, as people around us, we should not be too strict with them. Such strict treatment will have the opposite effect, further stimulate their confrontation, understand them, actively communicate with them, and pay more attention to adolescent mental health.
