For parents, it is a top priority to name their children after they have children. After all, it is related to their children's life. Generally speaking, parents will pick some words with beautiful meanings from Lang Lang.
However, what if "surname" is unusual? There are hundreds of family names. In addition to the common big names, rare family names are inevitable. It's really difficult for parents to choose names according to these family names.
More than a year ago, one of my friends, Xiao Chen, got married, and after that, his life was very happy. Happily, she was pregnant soon after, which can be said to be the icing on the cake. At that time, I only knew that she had married a good husband, but I didn't ask her husband's surname.
Now that the baby is born, the husband and wife are worried about the name of the baby. All kinds of relatives and friends, seven aunts and eight aunts ask for advice. When asked about my side, the surname "testicle" really made me in trouble.
After a long circle, I still have to make my own opinion. Bao's father was so arrogant that he registered his child without consulting his wife. His name was "Yiwen". It means that I hope my children can see and learn more in the future.
Originally, Bao Pa was quite satisfied with the name, which was simple, grand and not vulgar. When he came home to show off with his wife with his household registration book, Xiao Chen was confused and almost called an ambulance.
Holding back her anger, she asked her husband loudly, "Don't you really think there is something wrong with this name?" Bao Pa shook his head. "Don't you think it sounds like that? How can you make your child hold his head up in the future?" Dad suddenly realized this and promised his wife that no matter how difficult the procedure was, he would help the child change his name.
so Parents must be careful when choosing names for their children!
1、 Deliberate, not optional
The name is a "meeting gift" given by parents to their children. It is a reflection of father's love and mother's love. If it is too casual and not seriously considered, will you not feel "sorry" for the child?
Moreover, a good name can bring a lot of help to a child's life. It is so casual to "bury" these benefits. Don't you think about it for the child?
2、 Use words with big gender differences carefully
Boys should choose masculine names, while girls should choose quiet and feminine names. Otherwise, children can easily become the "laughingstock" in the eyes of their peers, either you are "sissy" or you are "tomboy". Either way, it will only hurt children but not help them.
3、 Pay attention to "homophonic" and don't make jokes
This is quite important. For example, the name in the above paragraph is really good in meaning, but poor in homophonic. Not only will they make jokes, but after the children go to school, it is estimated that the teachers can't shout, which is really embarrassing!
4、 Careful use of obscure characters
There are rare words in the name. Although it can avoid duplication, it is difficult to recognize and write! That is, it is not convenient for others and even for children. It is really unnecessary.
