Generally, many people tend to recall their youth when they are over 25 years old, while a few prefer to hold or invite their classmates to attend some gatherings or homecoming
Of course, I'd love to go if I like it, but if I don't like this occasion, I really have to think of ways to refuse it. So what makes people feel comfortable about rejection? Share to everyone~
1、 Reject face-to-face invitation
You may not be able to participate when you are invited. The role of preventive acupuncture is not to say no at once when you are invited. Just pause for a second or two to say a word. Check your schedule or determine if there is any situation on that day. You may not be able to participate. Once you realize this, it means a gentle refusal, which can play the role of preventive acupuncture, Give others a hint.
After the invitation but there is still a long way to go, apologize by phone. If you didn't immediately refuse or express your intention to refuse the invitation at the time of the invitation, you must not wait until the day of the party or the day before the party to say that you can't go. There must be some time to go, face to face or apologize by phone in advance to express your intention of not going, so that everyone can have fun.
2、 Reject network invitation
If you really don't want to participate, you don't reply. When you don't see that many invitations are directly to establish WeChat groups, qq groups or qq discussion groups, this situation, if you really don't want to participate, you don't need to reply. It's just as if you didn't see it. There's no problem.
If the person who sent the invitation has a good relationship, a simple text reply will not participate. If the relationship between the person who sent the invitation and yourself is good, you are not targeting this person, but this matter. So it is good to say that the reason for not participating and not participating under a simple text reply is good. The relationship with you is good or good, and the relationship with you will not be good.
3、 Reason for rejection
Work or study is the heavy work pressure of modern people, and the time for learning and training also accounts for most of the time, so it is easy to use work or study to push off the party. After all, it is not easy for anyone to work, and there must be motivation and pressure to live.
When it comes to physical reasons, don't curse yourself for being ill in order to refuse an invitation. Just say that your current health is not suitable for eating out or attending such gatherings. Everyone knows how to decline politely.
Family reasons Family reasons are also used by many people as reasons for rejection. For example, they want to accompany Baba Mama to travel, their wife and husband to take photos, and their children to attend extracurricular interest classes. There are too many reasons. Choose according to their own conditions.
If there are other invitations, you can use other invitations to return this invitation. You don't need to explain too much to others. You can understand everything. Just mention one or two words.
In fact, the last thing you don't want to contact with others is what you don't want to use. Although you know it psychologically, it's not the same thing to know it psychologically and say it verbally, so don't say anything that you don't want to contact with others if you can't say it is too bad.
