Thinking about 25 years old (reprinted) About life

I have just celebrated my 24th birthday. If I'm under age, I will be 25. Let's talk about myself. I am a rural child, my father is a carpenter, with junior high school education, and my mother is a rural woman. I can recognize a few words before finishing primary school. I also have a sister and a brother. My sister is three years older than me. She dropped out of school in the fourth grade of primary school. My brother is two years older than me, and his grades are also very poor. After graduating from junior high school, he stayed at home for a year and went out to work. At that time, there was a popular concept in the countryside that learning well was the material for going to school. In the future, I would become a college student, take a doctoral exam, and go abroad. of course...

15 prerequisites before marriage (online collection) About life

Most people want to change the world, but few want to change themselves. Positive people see an opportunity in every crisis, while negative people see some kind of crisis in every opportunity. There is no destiny that can be conquered without contempt, endurance and struggle. Action is a good medicine to cure fear, while hesitation and delay will continue to nourish fear. There is no innate confidence, only the confidence that is constantly cultivated. There is only one way you can't choose - the way to give up; There is only one way you can't refuse - the way to grow. If the greeting is just a greeting, it will be over

The Story of Spiders and Dew About love

I remember that I liked listening to the radio when I was in junior high school. It was also an accident to hear this story. Because of a question from the radio host, I still remember this story fresh. Today, after eight years, I recall that story and understand what is the most precious truth in the world! Once upon a time, in a ruined temple, there was a spider. It weaves a web on the Buddha statue every day, day after day. It has passed a thousand years without meaning. A thousand years later, one day suddenly came a big blow

Grow up in giving up (reprinted online) About life

Once we walked through the innocence of childhood, the happiness of youth, and people gradually grew up. I grew up from many failures and blows, learned from many setbacks and frustrations, and grew up from my diary for many years. So we suddenly look back again and again, and suddenly know that some things can not be too demanding, sometimes we have to know how to give up, in fact, we have already given up a lot.  

Will you cherish the help you get for free? About life

Once upon a time, there was such a group of people in the network who answered all kinds of questions launched through the network platform without seeking any return. Once upon a time, the author was also like this, and did not ask for any return to help the friends who met problems in the network. After careful consideration of their various reactions after getting help, they were moved, funny and sad. Some friends would politely say thank you, and some friends would come like shadows and go like wind. But when encountering problems again, I will think of you again, and still have no words after getting help

What are you doing at the age of 24? About life

Chen Yinque, 24, visited Germany, France and other places at that time, but he was forced to return to China due to the First World War at that time. In his later years, he taught and lived in Sun Yat sen University in Guangzhou. He was a famous Chinese classical literature researcher, historian, and religious scientist, and proficient in N languages (Appendix: In 1988, Sun Yat sen University held a study note for Chen Yinque when he studied in Germany. A student once asked Chen Yinque's wife, Tang Xuan, whether it was true that Chen knew more than 30 languages? Tang said that there are not so many, just 17 kinds). Seventeen

Remember who you were About life

A long time ago, I knew that I had been hiding my true self, and I didn't want to lead a sober life. This may be my self escape, or my inferiority. I don't dare to face my sober self easily. Sometimes my sober self makes me afraid. Most of the time, I treat everything around me like a child who will never grow up. I just remember in my heart what is important and what is not. It has been like this for 2 years, only when I had to face my sober self