#Super topic # National Day is the peak time for marriage again, have you really considered it clearly? What issues must be considered? Think about it and let cross-border people test/understand it!

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Many cross-border peers have talked about marriage anxiety when chatting before, and they can't help but yearn and fear when watching people around them step into marriage one by one. Don't worry, I picked up some questions from the Internet that must be thought out before entering the marriage. You can think about them for others.
 
In fact, whether it is marriage or love, it is beneficial to think clearly about these issues.
1. Do we want children? If so, who is mainly responsible?
2. How do we maintain our family? Who controls the possible risks?
3. Have we exchanged the disease history of both sides in detail? Including the spirit.
4. What is our earning power and goal? Will there be conflicts between consumption and savings?
5. If one party has debts, do they share them? Are you willing to financially support me?
6. Can you accept that I will do something without you?
7. What is the thing we will never give up because of marriage?
8. Are we confident in facing any challenges to keep the marriage moving forward?
9. Can we value and respect each other's parents? Have we considered that our parents may interfere in our relationship?
10. If one of us needs to leave his/her family's place to accompany the other to work in other places, can it be done?
11. What qualities are you attracted to me? What can't you stand?
12. What is "infidelity" in your eyes?
13. What do you think we will be like in ten years?
14. Will you become a good parent?
15. Can you ensure that you always remind you how much you love me?
16. Will you support me if I can't support myself?
17. Are you willing to make some compromises to keep our peace?
18. What do you think of divorce?
19. Will marriage change our existing intimate relationship?
20. Can you make a fool of yourself?
21. Who will do laundry, cooking and housework after marriage?
22. If we lose everything, will we still decide to get married?
23. Are you happy with each other?
24. Are we equal in this marriage?
25. Can you keep a distance with friends of the opposite sex?
(Self test questions are sorted from the network)
Invited:
Let me brainwash you with famous online comments:
1. If your annual income is less than 300000 yuan, it is recommended to break up, because marriage is a luxury for you and will consume a lot of wealth;
2. If you have an annual income of 300000 yuan, it is recommended not to get married, because you can use love again and again to shock again and again to leap across social strata;
3. If your annual income is much higher than 500000 yuan, it is recommended not to get married, because you can maintain many relationships without getting married;

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