I don't remember when the song "Simple Love" made many young men and women in love yearn for the pure love between Ye Xianglun and Lu Xiaoyu in "Secrets that can't be told". As the lyrics say, "I can't say why, I become very active. If I fall in love with a person, everything will be worth doing". But in fact, everyone will be tired after taking the initiative for a long time
In terms of love, many girls want boys to take the initiative. Whether it is reserved or for other reasons, this small request is understandable. As for boys, taking the initiative is acceptable and should be. However, many people do not understand how difficult it is to love without a fulcrum.
When a boy pursues a girl, he should not only love her in his heart, but also let her know that you like her and love her, and be good to her, like her and love her in practical action, so that she can truly feel your love. If you just like each other in your heart, but don't pay a little in reality, or even fear that others know you like each other, how can you make girls like you. To love someone is not just in your heart. Love that only stays in the heart is not love. Love is shown in action.
There are many things like this. At the beginning, the boy was really good to the girl, but because the girl never said anything or disagreed, the boy finally gave up. Many girls think that the boy is not sincere enough and give up so easily. Yes, maybe some of them are not really liked, but some of them are tired because the boys are tired. Everyone will be tired after taking the initiative for a long time. Love is a matter of two people. It needs two people to work together. I think as long as it is a really serious person, whether a boy or a girl, they like to find a person who can accompany them through the ups and downs and run a love house together, rather than a person who only hopes that the other party will serve them.
It is not so simple to like a person. When a boy shows his love to a girl, or simply expresses his love to a girl, if he does not like her, the girl will find it difficult to accept her immediately. It is normal to refuse or not express his opinion. This requires the boy to "chase" and let the girl love him. In fact, as long as there is no change of heart, even if there is a little hope, the boy will not give up a girl. Only when the girl makes the boy feel desperate, the boy will really give up in pain. In fact, even if the girl gives the boy a little confidence, the boy can take this as a fulcrum to have the courage to continue to love. Every boy has a very rational side in his heart. The boy loves people. In the boy's eyes, love always exists with people. If the other party cannot fall in love with himself, then the boy will never fool himself into loving the nonexistent "love". Every boy can cruelly think when facing love: Are you worth my love
Love has a very simple definition, that is, I love you, you love me. Love is never a one-man show.
