Depression was once a very strange word to us, but as time went on, it became more and more common around us, so the word became a trend, an excuse for people to escape... This trend seems that we have no depression and no common language with others. So to be honest, the cost of depression is too low. Go to the hospital to register, tell the doctor that he is depressed, write a bill, pay, do a questionnaire, and then select the worst one and submit it.

From the touch porcelain of the online celebrity "Little Wise King" to the recent events that really happened around me, I realized the low cost of depression. It seems that everyone can be depressed, but no one knows that when they use low cost to touch the whole truly depressed crowd, the shadow of their life will be assimilated by others for 20 or 30 yuan, and they will become a kind of people in the eyes of others.

People who are really depressed will not brush off their sense of existence, TA people are more likely to disguise themselves in the crowd, reduce their sense of existence, and make others feel like ordinary people. However, "pseudo depression" people want the world to know that they are depressed, and they want everyone to comfort TA, use depression to attract people's attention, create a sense of existence, win sympathy, guide public opinion, and disguise themselves with depression, To bully people who are really depressed by themselves also makes everyone's first impression of depressed people more unfriendly.

In February 2017, Lin Yihan published the novel "Fang Siqi's First Love Paradise". On April 27, 2017, Lin Yihan chose to hang himself in his home in Taipei, Taiwan Province. He was only 26 years old. Lin Yihan is one of the writers I admire most. She dares to write her own experience. She was forced to drop out of school due to secondary severe depression, which is very similar to me. But what she has experienced is something I dare not think about. But now when I see so many people in my life who take depression as the trend, what I feel is not social progress, but the tragedy of this era, It is the ugliness of human nature.

The most frequent occurrence of depression is "cyber violence", that is, cyber violence.

"On January 24, Liu Xuezhou, a Hebei boy looking for relatives, left a suicide note saying that he committed suicide after encountering cyber violence."

"On October 15, 2021, blogger Luo Xiaomao Maozi was coaxed by netizens to drink pesticide and commit suicide in the live broadcast room"

"On October 14, 2019, South Korean star Cui Xueli was 25 years old when she suffered cyber violence before she committed suicide."

"In 2018, a female doctor in Deyang, Sichuan, committed suicide due to cyber violence"

"On December 11, 2020, Station B's UP was suspected of faking illness and encountering cyber violence before his death due to lung cancer"

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Such things always happen around us.

In reality, people always wear their own masks and hide their real faces. But on the Internet and across the screen, people reveal their nature. As Xunzi said, human nature is evil, which is more vividly reflected on the Internet. Across the screen, people use virtual identities. Maybe some people are senior white-collar workers of a company, Or the senior network security engineer of a digital government enterprise company, or someone who claims to be a person of Haiyangnet Jingjing, all put away their hypocritical masks on the Internet and turned into ugly and ferocious monsters. What they did, in my opinion, was to jump with someone and shout: "Why don't you jump down?", The nature is the same. "When the avalanche happens, no snowflake is innocent" Depression has become the disease with the highest mortality rate except cancer. Some people turn the sympathy that society gives to patients with depression into a flaunt of capital and a pursuit. This is the value of some contemporary young people, and there is also a cognitive bias.

We should correctly understand what depression is. We should reasonably face the real depression around us, give them friendly treatment, identify the false depression principle, and use depression as a shield to win sympathy. We should treat the world and everyone around us kindly.

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