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Many people say that children are the most innocent, but not every child can have a happy childhood. Some children's childhood trauma may leave a lifelong shadow on their hearts.
Some women are especially unlucky to be born in a patriarchal family. In such a family, no matter how hard a woman tries to behave and how she tries to please her parents, her parents will never be able to give her a care and a hug. Women born in such a family often have weak hearts, but they should pretend to be strong in appearance, because no one loves them, only they love themselves, because no one cares about them, and they can only pretend to be strong and not be bullied by others.
Unfortunately, Yiyi is a woman born in such a patriarchal family. Recently, when her parents learned that she was going to get married, they asked her daughter, who had never cared about her, for a high bride price, which made Yiyi feel her parents' indifference to her again.
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I haven't received a word of concern from my parents since I was a sensible man. No matter how hard I try to show myself, I can never get a word of recognition from them. All their love was given to my brother, and my home here is a small transparent existence.
And I also know that if I want to live a good life in the future, I must rely on my own efforts. So even though my parents are indifferent to me, I still try my best to study. In fact, my parents didn't help me much on my way to school. If it wasn't for the help of some relatives, I might not even be able to go to college.
As a matter of fact, I have been indifferent to my parents for a long time. I said to myself that I would try my best to do what I should do as a daughter, but I can't do it. Like other daughters, I can become the parents' intimate little padded jacket. However, when I learned that I was going to get married, my parents' behavior made me feel their indifference to me again.
"We had a hard time raising you. Now that you are going to marry, can you become a monk at will? This betrothal gift is still needed, and can you make our family suffer!"
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When I heard my parents say such words, I felt very sad in my heart. In their minds, they didn't care whether my marriage was happy or not. What they cared about was how much money they could get for the betrothal gifts and whether they would suffer losses.
"When I was admitted to college and asked you to let me study, you turned a blind eye to me, ignored me and refused. If it were not for my uncles who helped me pay for my tuition, I would not have my life today. Now you are ashamed to ask me for betrothal gifts. Are you parents like this?"
"It's true that you raised me, but I don't feel any love in that family. Now that you have given birth to me, I will do what my daughter should do. As for other things, don't think about them. Get out of here!"
Although I know these words should not be said to my parents, I have suppressed the complaints and pains for many years in my heart, and I need to find a vent urgently. My parents gave birth to me, but they ignored me. Obviously, there are children and women, but there is only a son in my heart. This will be the pain of my life forever.
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For women, you may feel satisfied if they just hope to get a hug from their parents. Then some parents' son preference is too serious, and they don't take their daughters seriously. She even thinks that her daughter's future is not as important as her son's, and she devotes herself to her son, but ignores her daughter. Women grow up from such a family, often with a very fragile heart, and will fall into shadow from childhood.
It is good to have children as well as daughters. Daughters are also parents' sweet little cotton padded jacket. When many parents are young, don't take their children's gender too seriously. When they are old, they should wait at their own bedside. It is very likely that their daughter will take care of themselves rather than their son. However, if some of your actions in your youth hurt your daughter's heart, you can't blame her for being cruel.
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