"You earn money to support your family, and I am responsible for beautiful and moving." This popular phrase may mislead many people. Men are regarded as unloving if they don't send flowers, and not loving if they don't send designer bags. All kinds of sensitivities and pickiness come one after another.
This wrong view of love makes women mistakenly believe that as long as they have outstanding appearance, they can get everything. It also makes men mistakenly believe that having a beautiful partner means success. However, the reality is that external beauty is not scarce, and the real treasure is the virtuous women with both internal beauty and ability.
Such women are simple and decent without showing off, and their charm is gradually shown in the long river of marriage.
Today's single men seem to be more and more aware of this. They pay more attention to reality when choosing partners, rather than just looking at appearance.
On March 10, in Guangdong, a blind date attracted 30 single men and women. During the activity, after a period of communication and understanding, men held roses to express their feelings to their favorite women.
Some men successfully sent flowers, and the lady who received them was very happy; Some men failed to send a flower, which made the scene a little awkward.
The most popular one was a young woman wearing jeans. Soon her hands were filled with flowers. A total of 8 men expressed their good feelings for her.
Other women around responded differently, some showed envy, some were surprised, others showed jealousy, even scorn. These expressions are rich and colorful, like a gallery of people on a blind date.
The reason why jeans women are popular may be due to her simple dress and crisp high ponytail hairstyle, as well as her not surprising but comfortable face. She wears a simple white T-shirt, jeans and sneakers, giving a natural and cordial feeling.
Next to her, a woman in blue also attracted netizens' attention. Many people commented on the Internet: "It's a pity that no one noticed her“
The lady in blue is undoubtedly the most attractive. She has the highest taste in dress and the most exquisite makeup. Her wavy hair, coupled with a bubble sleeve shirt and white shorts, and a pair of white boots, shows the charm of women.
In the process of sending flowers, she was full of confidence at the beginning, but finally she only got a rose. When the camera caught her, she threw a contemptuous look at Ms. Jeans, then lowered her head, maintaining a cold expression.
Apparently, Ms. Lan Yi was very dissatisfied with the result, and her face was full of unhappiness. She thought that her charm would attract many men's attention, but the reality gave her a loud slap in the face.
As one netizen said, "In the box, everyone is competing for a lady in blue. But on this occasion, everyone will choose a woman who is dignified, friendly, and good-looking." This is not surprising. For older single men, they are more likely to seek home-based partners. Those beautiful women who look fashionable and exquisite may make people feel unreliable.
After all, true love and life are based on character and ambition. Finding a good life partner is the most important. Without a solid moral foundation, it is difficult to maintain a healthy family and social relations only by appearance.
In a word, everyone has his own reasons for choosing. Whether you choose appearance or character, the key is whether you can understand and tolerate each other, so that you can live a comfortable life.
Now the question arises. If you were one of them, what choice would you make?
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