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What is childishness? This is really an interesting question. Because there is seldom a word that evaluates different "Evaluated object" It will produce different effects.
For example, cute, smart, or cold, cruel, most of them are consistent, but not naive.
If a child of several years old is evaluated as naive, everyone will only think that "Innocent".
If a teenager is evaluated as naive, people may think that "Pure blood"
If a young man in his 30s and 40s is evaluated as naive, everyone will feel that "Embarrassing the task"
If a middle-aged man in his fifties or sixties is evaluated as naive, everyone knows that...... Ta
On the whole, "Childish" It is not a particularly "positive" word, otherwise, when Wang Mang usurped the Han Dynasty, the reason would not be "Childish" Has. ("Gai Wen is born with many people, and cannot govern each other. He establishes a ruler for him to govern. When he is young, he must have a sustenance to live and take care of himself, and then he can become a local person by giving alms to heaven, and grow and grow in groups.")
But children can be childish, and many adults are still very young "Childish", Why?
Hello, everyone. I'm Yuanfang. Today, let's talk about:
No, childish!
Yuan Fang first tried to define "childishness". Ha
Childishness refers to the relatively immature state of the individual (or organization) in thinking, emotion or behavior, which is usually inconsistent with age or experience level, lacks thoughtful and comprehensive judgment, and tends to simple, direct and immediate response.
So why is there such a situation as "childishness"? Generally speaking, life is too much Shun Has.
All "naive" people are mostly affected by Protect That's great.
If you don't believe me, go and compare ten children in Gaza with ten middle-class children in Chinese cities. It will be obvious that Chinese children will be more "naive".
The "naivety" here is not the difference in the amount of knowledge and the quality of their academic achievements, but how they view the world, the society and their own systematic cognition.
Of course, the same thing does not happen only to children. Today, many civil servants who have grown up smoothly in primary schools, middle schools, universities, graduate students, candidates, agencies, temporary posts, and promotions, and the older generation of politicians who have struggled on the edge of life and death, earned their lives in a hail of bullets, played games, cooperated, betrayed, and fought may also be different.
What is the essence of "childishness"?
Lenin mentioned in the Childhood of the "Left" in the Communist Movement in 1920:
Strategies must not be formulated solely on the basis of revolutionary sentiments and the wishes and determination of a group or political party, but must make a strict and objective assessment of the strength of all classes and their interrelationships. The revolutionary party must combine the firmness of principle with the flexibility of strategy. It must make use of all the contradictions between the enemies and find an appropriate form of compromise without sacrificing principle to win over a large number of allies.
The "Left", such as closed doorism, not taking advantage of the internal contradictions of the bourgeoisie to win over the majority, and refusing to do hard mass work, are all manifestations of "infantilism".
In 1945, Chairman Mao recommended five Marxist Leninist books to senior cadres at the Seventh National Congress of the Communist Party of China.
To sum up, the so-called "naivety" is actually "not really seeking truth from facts", does not respect the objective reality, does not consider the interests (desires) of others, and cannot take long-term consideration.
People are born to be self.
We all have a stage in life, that is, we feel that we are the center of the world, others are NPC, and we are omnipotent in the world and the son of the version. (Don't doubt that not only do you feel this way when you read this passage now, but every one of us has experienced this stage.)
Just as we grow up, we gradually understand the world deeply. This feeling will be differentiated.
This is true of people and organizations.
Some of them are well protected. Their study, work and family are smooth, and they have not encountered any major challenges. If they play a role in work and life, they don't need to play games, struggle and cooperate, but simply give orders. He will become more and more childish. Because it is not necessary for them to become mature, they can still live well.
Some of them gradually sank after being hit, losing their goals and courage. Habitually obey and give up thinking, leaving only emotion. They often feel that the "leaders" above are omnipotent and have no worries and entanglements. However, I am not good at "mixing", but I am too "honest", "simple" or something... This is actually "naive".
There is only one kind of person who constantly experiences those challenges, problems and pains in the process of growing up. These "challenges, problems and pains" will force them to understand, learn and change without crushing them at once. Always and "Up, down, left, right" All kinds of relationships, games, struggles, and at the same time, they are committed to their own goals in life.
Which is called "There is only one kind of heroism, that is, love life after recognizing the truth of life."
This can be called "Growth".
Therefore, sometimes ask yourself whether your "organization" has committed "infantilism", which may be the beginning of continuous self-improvement.
Hard times create brave people,
The brave create an era of ease;
The era of ease produced the weak,
The weak return to hard times.
Tough times create strong men.
Strong men create easy times.
Easy times create weak men.
Weak men create tough times.
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Struggle itself is a kind of happiness. Only a struggling life can be called a happy life. Struggle is hard, hard, and you can succeed. Without hard work, it is not true struggle. We should have the courage to purify our soul, sharpen our will, and strengthen our faith in hard work.
——Speech at the 2018 Spring Festival Celebration on February 14, 2018
