Love should be pure and beautiful, but once linked with monetary interests, it may become complex and utilitarian. As the saying goes, "talking about money hurts feelings". Everyone has the freedom to seek happiness, but this does not mean that they can take advantage of others and leave.
A shocking incident happened in Beijing. A 25-year-old woman decided to end her six-year relationship. Her decision not only angered her mother, but also attracted public attention because of her mother's fierce reaction.
A woman's family background is excellent, and her parents' three views and conduct are praised. It is reasonable to say that children growing up in this environment should have good character and conduct. However, the choice of women is surprising.
The girl's boyfriend has invested a lot of emotion and money in this relationship. He gives his girlfriend the full salary to manage, so as to show his commitment to the future.
After six years of getting along, the man proposed to marry, but the woman refused. The woman believes that their personality and lifestyle have changed dramatically and are no longer suitable for each other, so she is determined to break up.
Faced with his girlfriend's request to break up, the man felt unbelievable and desperate. He saved 360000 yuan in six years of frugality, and all expenses during this period were borne by him, without his girlfriend bearing any expenses.
The woman didn't seem to realize her boyfriend's contribution. She thought she should get the money because he "enjoyed" her six years.
When the woman's mother learned that her daughter was going to break up, she immediately blamed her daughter and asked her to return her boyfriend's money. Mother thought that if a man was willing to give money to a woman for management, it was because he really wanted to spend the rest of his life with her.
If the woman is unwilling to marry him, she should return all the expenses over the years. However, the woman refused to return the money and asked her mother: "He slept for six years for nothing. Doesn't he have to pay the price?" Her mother angrily replied: "What do you regard yourself as? You are treating love as a trade."
In this story, the woman's mother shows the correct values, and the woman's attitude has caused controversy. In law, the boyfriend has the right to return the part that does not belong to the common property.
The woman's attitude may make her lose public support and even face legal disputes. It is hoped that women can learn from their mothers' teachings and realize the possible consequences of their actions.
In short, the money problem in this relationship makes the original pure love complex. In modern society, the boundary between money and emotion needs to be clearly defined to avoid similar situations.
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