On blind date occasions, many people shun divorced women as if they were carrying some kind of ominous omen. Such social attitudes undoubtedly limit the possibility of divorced women remarriage and narrow their choice range.
However, some men are open to this stereotype. They believe that as long as two people are attracted to each other, even if the other has married, their decisions will not be affected.
If these women have good morality, they are likely to be happy again. However, the premise is that they must choose their partners carefully so as not to become the so-called "plate takers" unfortunately.
This word is usually used to describe those who rush into marriage without knowing the real background of the other party, and finally find that there are major emotional problems or other problems, but they are trapped in a dilemma that they cannot easily escape.
In order to avoid becoming a "plate collector", we need to be very careful when choosing a lifelong partner, and we must know everything about each other deeply, so that we can protect ourselves from misfortune to the greatest extent.
In a small city in Anhui Province, 28 year old Li Ming met 34 year old Wang Li on a blind date through relatives' introduction. Wang Li's fashionable dress and mature charm, as well as her cheerful personality, immediately attracted Li Ming's attention.
Although Li Ming's family had reservations about his choice, after all, Li Ming was married for the first time and Wang Li was married for the second time, they respected his decision. Li Ming and Wang Li got married, and Li Ming handed over the financial power of the family to Wang Li, who paid her the full salary every month.
The married life seems to be harmonious and happy, but Li Ming always has some uneasiness, worried that his identity in the first marriage will lay hidden dangers between them. However, Wang Li's thoughtfulness and dedication made Li Ming feel deeply warm.
Until one day, when Li Ming came back from a business trip, he found an ambiguous message on Wang Li's mobile phone, which made him instantly cold. The message was sent by a strange man, asking Wang Li out to play. Li Ming asked to check the chat record, but Wang Li refused and took a tough attitude.
The conflict made Li Ming realize that Wang Li had no him in mind, and he felt extremely disappointed and painful. He learned a truth: when choosing a partner, character is more important than divorce. The wrong choice can lead to tragedy, while the right choice can lead to happiness.
Li Ming decided to end this marriage and vowed: "I would rather choose a woman from a good family than marry a woman who has been married!" He knew that such a decision was painful for him, but he could not continue to live in such a relationship of distrust and disrespect.
Whether it's the first marriage or the second, the key is to find a partner with correct thinking and good moral character. Only people with pure hearts will be loyal to marriage. Those who only consider themselves will only make marriage tired and use marriage to achieve their goals.
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