The stupidest thing a man can do in the Jianghu is to make enemies everywhere. The wisest way is to "make good connections".
Even if it is impossible to build a good relationship, we must ensure that "well water does not offend the river". If you don't offend others, they won't deliberately target you or hurt you.
Especially in this era when people are grumpy and angry, you may offend others and provoke certain disasters if you say a wrong word or do a wrong thing.
Some people were beaten because they were too arrogant; Some people, because they have too many mouths, are cut; Some people will lose their lives because they offend too many people.
People should never take chances, and never feel that these things will not happen to them. Life is unpredictable and unexpected.
Tell your relatives not to offend these four types of people in the next few years.
1： Don't offend a single person.
With the decrease of marriage rate and the sharp increase of divorce rate, it can be predicted that there will be more and more single people in the future. The bachelor crisis has also intensified.
You must wonder, the bachelor crisis, it is a bachelor's affair, and I am married, what does the bachelor crisis have to do with me? It will matter a lot.
First, the bachelor crisis is not a personal problem, but a whole problem; Secondly, a single person who is alone and has no worries will not be tied down and tends to enjoy gratitude and revenge.
Let's face it: single young people and middle-aged people will not work overtime at work, but punch in and leave on time. Those who work overtime are young and middle-aged people with families.
Another reality: bosses dare not default on the wages of single people, but like to default on the wages of people with families. Because the boss is afraid of bachelors, not people with families.
The reason is simple, The barefoot is not afraid of wearing shoes, while the shoewearer is afraid of barefoot. It is true that one by one, a bachelor is not a loser. All losers are bosses and people with families.
2： Don't offend those who are too poor to go anywhere.
If a person is rich and has a wealth of millions or tens of millions, he will definitely protect his life. He will be careful in everything he does for fear that something might go wrong. Because rich people still have wealth and honour to enjoy.
People are poor, so poor that they have no choice but to die. Then they will be very crazy and do nothing at all. Even if you argue with others, you will fight with your life.
It seems more and more difficult to earn money, and more and more poor people. As the saying goes, "people are poor and have short aspirations, and horses are thin and long." When people reach a certain point, they will go to extremes.
You should know that there is a limit to a person's endurance. If a person exceeds a certain limit, he will collapse, or go to a more extreme extreme, or even harm others and himself.
It's better to be tolerant towards the delivery boy and the delivery boy. A casual "hard work" will make people feel warm; You can learn to be considerate towards the bottom service personnel. A casual "thank you" will nourish people's hearts.
No matter how rich you are, don't bully others. No matter how reasonable, don't be unreasonable. We really drive others to the end of their tether. It is we who suffer.
3： Don't criticize or advise young people too much.
I always believe that every generation has its own difficulties and hardships. The older generation should not dictate to the younger generation, nor should they lecture the younger generation from above.
In the past two years, there has been a saying on the Internet, Experts are advised not to suggest. Why does this statement appear? because If the class is different, then the suggestion is meaningless.
For example, you are a safe and stable urban veteran with a retirement salary of more than 10000 yuan. If you blame the unemployed young people who graduated from college too much, won't you become the public enemy of young people?
First of all, the older generation cannot perceive the difficulties of the younger generation; Secondly, the older generation, depending on their status and qualifications, will be disgusted if they criticize the young people.
Even the so-called "experts" have become "derogatory words" in the eyes of young people, let alone other people? As a matter of fact, it would be better for everyone to "keep well water away from river".
More tolerance and consideration for young people are good for themselves and others. You know, Hello, I'm good, so we can be good.
4： Don't offend those who are unkind to others.
The biggest defect of human nature is that "people don't like people when they see them". If you don't live well, others will laugh at you. If you live well, others will feel envious and jealous towards you.
Moderate envy, jealousy and hatred, human nature is normal. Excessive envy, jealousy and hatred will distort human nature.
When you travel to a certain place, you have many friends. When a colleague saw it, he was not happy and could not see you well, so he aimed at you and made a stumbling block for you at work.
This is still a small matter. If you make hundreds of thousands of dollars, send a circle of friends to show how much money you have made. I think trouble will come soon.
Two years ago, there was a case. A woman bragged about her husband's monthly income. Soon, the whole industry was investigated and her salary was cut. The couple became public enemies in the industry.
What is human nature? "You can live well, but you can't live better than me" is human nature. Never take your own life to test human nature. Otherwise, it will suffer heavy losses.
Wen/Shushan Youlu
