#Record my 2023 from today#
Qian Juan and Zhang Tao fell in love for three years and entered the marriage palace with the blessing of family and friends. Zhang Tao's family is a senior home bought by her parents. After only a few years of buying it, all the money was on this house. So when Qian Juan married Zhang Tao, she didn't buy a new house.
"Just at the right time, we two work. My mother cooks at home and does housework. We go back to eat if we want, and eat outside if we don't want to." Zhang Taoguang and Qian Juan said
Her mother-in-law is very diligent, and she does all the housework quickly. Qian Juan feels that it's good to live with the elderly.
But her mother-in-law's sense of boundaries is too bad. She never knocks at the door when she enters the room, and Zhang Tao gets up late and directly lifts the quilt. Qian Juan is very upset. After all, the two are married.
Zhang Tao told his mother many times that she had to knock at the door first and get an answer before entering. Fortunately, Zhang Tao's mother gradually changed. Although she still muttered, "I haven't seen you before, you are all women, and quite particular.".
Qian Juan can tolerate all these things. After all, her mother-in-law has a generation gap with her. She enjoys her mother-in-law's care and has to endure three different views.
But her mother-in-law would take her own things casually, and Qian Juan couldn't stand it.
Qian Juan had just bought a set of cosmetics after receiving her salary. She had liked this set of cosmetics for a long time, but the next day, Qian Juan was ready to use it, but she could not find it.
"Husband, did you see the cosmetics I bought yesterday? I put them in the drawer here. I haven't used them yet." Qian Juan asked Zhang Tao
"As a big man, I don't care about those things. If you look carefully, do you forget the place?" Zhang Tao said
This is strange. Qian Juan clearly wants to put it in the drawer. Why can't she find it? She still has to work. Qian Juan wants to look for it after work.
But after work in the evening, Qian Juan looked for the whole room, but still didn't have it. If it wasn't for her payment record in WeChat, Qian Juan thought she had lost her memory.
There is no way out. Qian Juan left the matter for the time being in confusion.
A few days later, Qian Juan found that the cosmetics her sister-in-law was using were the same as those she bought the other day.
"Mom, I bought cosmetics the other day and put them in the drawer. Have you seen them?" Qian Juan asked her mother-in-law
"Your sister likes it. I think you have something else to use, so I let your sister use it." The mother-in-law said without caring.
The case was solved at once. No wonder Qian Juan couldn't find it.
"Mom, how can you and your sister take other people's things without telling me? I haven't found them for a long time the other day." Qian Juan asked her mother-in-law rudely
"What are you shouting about? Your sister-in-law likes it. What's wrong with your sister-in-law?"
"My sister-in-law likes it. You can buy one for her next time, but Mom, you can't touch other people's things at will." Qian Juan said unhappily
"I am someone else or your sister-in-law is someone else. They are all a family. Do you still have to tell each other clearly?" Her mother-in-law said Qian Juan was speechless.
"Husband, tell your mother-in-law and sister-in-law if you can not touch my things." Qian Juan complained to Zhang Tao
"All right, my wife is not angry, and I will buy you another set." Zhang Tao knew that it was very peaceful, and both sides would not offend.
Qian Juan was so angry that she was speechless. Qian Juan thought it would be a bad idea to buy something by herself in the future because the two women liked it.
"Why is the beef I just bought yesterday gone?" Grandma shouted in the living room
"Mom, I thought the beef was fresh, so I took it back to my parents' house to cook and eat it." Qian Juan said
"If you don't tell me, what shall we eat today?"
"Mom, we are all a family. We can just have a vegetable," Qian Juan said
"Next time you take something, you should tell me in advance" Grandma told Qian Juan
"No problem, don't worry" Qian Juan promised.
When the pressure cooker was steaming rice, the old one was sticky, and her mother-in-law bought a new one. Her mother-in-law didn't pay attention, so Qian Juan took the pot back to her parents.
"Mom, I took the pot home. My mom's pot has been used for some years, and it's not working well." Qian Juan told her mother-in-law
Her mother-in-law gave Qian Juan a glance and said, "Can't your parents afford to buy a pot? You have to get a pot from here?" Qian Juan also said without showing weakness, "Mom, it's all from you. It's a family. Mom, you can buy it again."
Her mother-in-law put on her coat angrily and was ready to buy another pot. She looked at Qian Juan and said, "I will never touch your things again."
"OK, thank you, Mom," said Qian Juan cheerfully.
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