There is no trivial matter in education. Most parents are always cautious at ordinary times, fearing that a small mistake of their own will have an irreparable impact on their children.
After their children go to school, the school teachers are the ones that parents dare not offend most. In order for their children to be valued by teachers and other students at school, some parents consciously set up people for themselves. Both knowledgeable and reasonable understand education, but also have principles not easy to provoke. In order to make children have face, every time they go to school to hold a parents' meeting, they will dress up carefully. After all, parents look good, and students also have face.
The post-90s parents dress up to attend the parents' meeting, and students think their mother is too fashionable: this is not a nightclub
From the perspective of educational psychology, parents who can dress up can make students more confident, love life more, have tutors, be polite, behave more generously and appropriately, and be popular in school Teachers and students are willing to associate with such students. So some parents consciously began to dress up, especially when the parents' meeting was held.
A post-90s parent held a parents' meeting for his son in primary school and put on his favorite suit 。 Because there are a lot of sequins on it, which can not be worn on major occasions at ordinary times, and it is not suitable for life. I hope to wear them in school will be dazzling, which will make teachers and other parents look up to me.
I didn't expect that the parents would look silly when they walked into the school gate. Other parents didn't seem to dress up specially, but she was too fashionable. The parents and teachers around could not help looking sideways, and the parents themselves were very uncomfortable. When the son saw his mother appeared in the classroom wearing a bright pink diamond suit, his mind completely collapsed and he became angry with his mother: this is a parents' meeting, not a nightclub!
Netizens said that this is the favorite style of kindergarten students, and pupils will feel very humiliated. The parents also felt wronged, but they didn't expect it to backfire. It is said on the Internet that parents should dress up. Why doesn't anyone dress up for a parent meeting in real life? The result of dressing up carefully is self defeating. Not only does it not give the child a long face, it may also cause criticism.
Do parents need to dress up for a parent meeting?
The so-called dressing is not to wear pompous, jewels, famous brands and heavy makeup. It is to know where to wear appropriate clothes, and to meet their own identity, which is also part of social etiquette. Some students, fearing that their mother would exaggerate her appearance, specifically urged them not to be too rustic or too foreign, and they could wipe their lips red, but not too red.
As a parent, Dressing is nothing more than dressing decently and neatly. Either plain face or light makeup, no need to dress up deliberately or wear famous brands 。 It is OK to wear commuting clothes for the parents' meeting, and sportswear for the sports meeting, as long as it is not untidy, pajamas and slippers, unkempt and unkempt.
Many parents came to the school directly to attend the parents' meeting after asking for leave from their work units, so they didn't have time to change clothes, nor would it affect the teacher's impression of parents. To ask parents to dress up is just to tidy up their clothes and hairstyles to make themselves look better, rather than to make parents dress up excessively.
What's more? It is not possible to dress up once in a while at a parent's meeting if you want to play a role of teaching by example. It requires parents to form good habits for a long time and pay attention to their personal image when going out, which can achieve the desired effect.
Maybe parents will feel that they are too busy with their work and family to dress up at all, and are unwilling to spend more money on dressing up themselves. It would be more meaningful to save money to buy two more books for students. However, aesthetic education is also an indispensable part. If you want to cultivate excellent students, parents must first reach the level of excellence.
Being a parent, dressing and dressing are learned
The reason why parents are the first teachers of children is that they can be influenced every day since they are sensible, which is more profound than the influence of preaching on students. Education does not only exist in the classroom. Family education can exist in all aspects of life, Including the management of parents' personal image, it will also influence students' behavior and habits imperceptibly.
Parents who pay attention to their personal image when going out usually love life more and have a wide range of interests, so the students they cultivate are naturally more optimistic and cheerful. Some parents do not spend a lot of money, but also manage their lives in order. Such students are also more organized in their work, learning rules, and the probability of future success is higher.
Family school co education makes everyone begin to attach importance to the importance of family education, Without a good home education environment, it is useless to find the best teacher even in the best school. When students are usually careless in exams, parents first ask themselves whether they are usually careless. When students' obsession with mobile phones affects their academic performance, parents should also reflect on whether they have the habit of playing with mobile phones.
Education has always been a discipline, It's a pity that most parents only take it for granted to deal with educational problems, and never seek a truly scientific and reasonable solution As a result, students often take detours, and it is the students themselves who suffer the final loss.
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