Recently, several videos released by a social media account have aroused heated discussion among netizens.In a video clip, a man who claimed to be a "senior family education expert" asked the boy to smash his beloved toy model and let the girl throw her toys and comic books into the dustbin... The series of behaviors of the "expert" were denounced by netizens as "repressive education".(City Express)
"Family education experts" play home education scene videos to the audience in the form of home visits, so that the audience has a realistic sense of home education experience. This approach itself is no problem.However, many netizens were quite angry at the rude education concept they presented, and pointed out that the children's eyes in the video "turned from light in the initial eyes to hatred and apathy".It is not difficult to see that the inappropriate family education method and the negative impact on children's psychology.
In the real society, due to the influence of traditional concepts such as "strict teacher makes excellent apprentice" and "no fight, no success", families keen on "repressive family education" are not unique.A survey conducted by the China Youth Daily shows that 90.6% of the youth interviewed admitted that their parents had made verbal attacks on them.Although the "suppression type tutoring" does not make children suffer as much as the "stick education", its psychological damage to children should not be underestimated.It is not hard to imagine the frustration of children who have been living in a repressed tutor environment for a long time;The estranged parent-child relationship is also likely to make children unhappy, painful and even psychologically rebellious, which is not only detrimental to the harmonious parent-child relationship, but also has a negative impact on children's mental health and character formation.
Family education is not only related to children's academic achievements, but also to their physical and mental health.The government and society should provide more guidance, support and services for family education.In this era of popular short videos, it is necessary to prevent some fishermen in troubled waters from harvesting traffic or even misleading the audience.This requires relevant platforms and regulatory authorities to strengthen supervision and check.At the same time, the majority of parents should also consciously learn the correct family education methods, pay attention to children's mental health, and earnestly assume the main responsibility of implementing correct family education for minors.
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Source: China Population Daily
By: Zhang Yusheng (civil servant)
Planner: Li Bing
Editor: Chen Yuan, Yang Zhenyu
Checked by: Li Shiyao
Reviewed by: Qin Mingrui, Xu Bingnan
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