【 Note: The material comes from the life around you. If you have similar experience, it is purely coincidental. Please read it rationally.]
His mother, who had been in bed for five years, died, and his brother, who had not returned for three years, knelt in front of the coffin, beat his chest and stamped his feet, crying and yelling to go with him.
The elder brother didn't come up without a breath. The sister-in-law beside him immediately took out the heart saving pill, put it into his mouth, and smoothed his hand down on his back.
The wife couldn't stand it and said to the eldest brother: It's almost enough. Don't eat the expired heart saving pills. They haven't come back for three years. Now they are crying. What have you done!
My sister-in-law could not hold her face. She turned to me and asked me: How do you take care of your mother? If we don't come, we will give you 500 yuan a month?
Everyone else in the room thinks that my sister-in-law is joking. It's great to take care of a bedridden patient for 500.
Someone said to his sister-in-law, "If you have such a heart, I will take the old lady back and give you 1000.".
My brother and sister-in-law are just playing for the living. My wife and I have taken care of our mother for five years, and we have already exhausted all our pains and tears.
Now I have only physical and mental exhaustion, and unspeakable liberation.
Watching the performance of my elder brother and sister-in-law, I felt like telling my elder brother that my filial piety has long been worthless.
I am Qi Yunfang, 56 years old, retired for 6 years, with a monthly pension of more than 3800, and my only daughter has already married.
My wife is 5 years older than me. She retired last year and has a monthly pension of 6800 yuan. Our life is pretty good.
Mother has been in bed for 5 years, which really made her husband suffer a lot. This kind of bone cutting injury from her relatives is very sad.
My family has only two children, my brother and I. My father left early, and my mother has always lived in the same community with me.
Usually there is a headache. My wife and I take my mother to the hospital to get medicine, and occasionally take her to do acupuncture and massage.
After I retired, thinking that my mother had never traveled far, I asked her if she wanted to go to a distant place.
Mother nodded and said that she had already had this idea, but she was embarrassed to mention it to our children.
Now that I have asked her, she is willing to pay me to take her out for a walk.
I told my brother about it, but my brother answered me directly that he had no money, so he didn't care.
As a daughter, I keep my mother's side. I know that I am blessed by my mother.
Since my daughter was a child, I have kept in mind that my mother helped to take her baby and my father helped to pick her up and send her away.
I want to take my mother around. I didn't want my mother to pay, but I just wanted to tell my brother.
But my brother understood that I told him to ask him for financial assistance.
I took my mother to visit Yunnan for three months and felt that she was very happy and satisfied.
When I came back, my mother often told me about the pleasure of playing outside, the places we had visited, and the food we had eaten.
One year later, I still wanted to take my mother out to play. Before I started, my mother had a brain attack. Fortunately, I found it in time.
After treatment, my mother's life was saved, but she could only stay in bed and not take care of herself.
My brother came back from other places not to ask how his mother was ill or how our brothers and sisters took care of her.
Instead, I complained that I should not take my mother out to play and still play outside for so long, and attributed my mother's illness to my fault.
This made me feel very aggrieved. My mother went out with me to play, from traveling expenses to accommodation, as well as sending local specialties to my brother's family, all of which were paid by me. I let her keep my mother's money.
What's the connection between my mother's brain infarction and the trip a year ago? My brother is just used to blaming when things go wrong, and he doesn't want to take responsibility and obligation. He deliberately said this to me, which made me very angry.
Maybe it's because of a sudden illness, or maybe people's thinking has changed since they got sick.
My mother's attitude towards me has also changed significantly. It is no longer the tender scene of motherly kindness and filial piety.
But as long as my mother is not satisfied, she can easily lose her temper with me, say terrible words, and poke people's pain.
My brother didn't solve anything when he came back, which made me angry. My wife almost fought with my brother.
My mother told me that she didn't like strangers to take care of her. Just as I was retired at home, let me take care of her.
I take care of my mother. She won't give me her retirement card and deposit, saying I owe her this.
In my mother's logical thinking, she helped me for many years. Now that she is in bed, it is an opportunity for me to give back gratitude to her.
The next year, my brother came back again. This time, his mother asked him to come back, saying that there was something important that my brother needed to do.
This time, my mother called me, my brother, my sister-in-law and my wife together, and told us her distribution of her property directly.
The house where my mother lives will be transferred to my brother's name immediately, and her savings will be left to her grandson.
As for the mother who cannot take care of herself, it is mine, and all the expenses for me to take care of my mother are from my mother's pension.
My brother and I will share the insufficient expenses.
My wife and I had thought of this for a long time, so we accepted it calmly and didn't say anything more to my brother and mother.
That time, my sister-in-law was very virtuous. My mother didn't control herself, so the bed was full of excrement.
My sister-in-law volunteered to help my mother clean up. Unexpectedly, she went to the bathroom to vomit before she even started.
My brother couldn't resist and asked me to help quickly, but my wife told me not to worry and eat the food first.
My mother yelled in the room, saying that I was an unfilial girl and my wife was ungrateful.
He began to tell me how he helped my wife and me with the baby and how we benefited from her.
This is how people want to give back when they give, and others will feel uncomfortable.
My wife thinks that my mother is becoming more and more unreasonable. Some of my mothers have such a temper.
That time, after my brother and sister-in-law left, they never came back until my mother left seriously due to mycoplasma infection.
The elder brother and sister-in-law came back and pretended to be true. They fainted several times, making people who did not know that this was the real filial son.
Don't you know, my brother and sister-in-law have no talent for acting. They cried for a long time, but there were not many tears.
Before the first seven days of my mother's life, my brother and sister-in-law completely emptied my mother's house and hung it up for sale at a low price.
In my brother's words, he will get the house money within half a month. I know what he means, and I will never come back.
Sometimes, I just think that my mother loves my brother so much that she is in bed. My brother's interests and benefits are all his, and my responsibilities and obligations are all my daughter's.
In the end, it is my daughter who will support her and send her to the end of her life. I will also be my daughter in the future. I will burn paper and send her cold clothes during the Qingming Festival.
Why can't you treat me better and give me more warm memories in the last few years instead of letting me feel relieved.
My brother's filial piety is overdue. Does my mother really know nothing about it? Human nature is just like this!
(This story originates from life, but it is higher than life. Please read it rationally.)
Author: Luxury Zen Heart
Pay attention to my words and walk into your heart. You have stories and I have tea. Let's talk about the rest of our lives.
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